Why do men need so much excitement? Well, because they are like kids albeit grown up kids.
Give a man little boredom and his roving eyes will start wondering and before you know it woosh! They are gone.
Relax! This does not happen all the time but you still need to guard against it.
Here is what you can do.
Pay attention to yourself To keep his attention on you will first have to give your physical self a lot of attention.
Never lose sight of the fact that he was first attracted to your fantastic body.
And to keep the excitement going in the relationship you need to possess it all the time.
if you stay in shape and take care of your hair, skin and face he will not have to look elsewhere for excitement.
Naughty demeanor The best way to keep your man's attention is to prove to him that no one excels in the titillation game but you.
Keep your naughty attitude even if the relation is old.
Men just want to talk and hear dirty and corny stuff.
So, what is the harm in playing along so long as it does not demean you? Retain the freshness Just because you are now in a steady relationship it does not mean that you can relax.
Well, you have to continuously surprise him with your spontaneity.
Predictability is your relationship's worst enemy.
Keep him engaged by revealing a new side of you whenever you feel that he is on the verge of getting bored.
It need not always be sexual but see that you as a person excite him.
Don't try to control him Men do not like to be controlled by their women.
Give him the independence to do what he likes so long as it does not cause him and you any harm.
Drinking himself silly at the pub or bar with his friends once in a while is okay.
He needs to distress and if drink solves the problem then so be it.
However, it should not be an everyday excuse.
Take ownership of some aspects If it is the financial stress that is getting to him then you too can start working and take care of a few bills.
If you are already working then you may encourage him to upgrade his skills so that he remains employable.
If need be tell him that he can take a 6 to 8 month hiatus from running the house and that you will run it so that he can acquire new skills.
TLC TLC means tender loving care.
When a man gets this he becomes painfully aware that he will not get all this from someone else.
When you make it your business to do this you will be rewarded with his uninterrupted attention.
Make the sex more interesting Sexual monotony is another relationship breaker.
Men easily get bored with the same moves and same body.
Now you can't change your body altogether, however, you certainly can learn new moves or bring some more unpredictability to your lovemaking.
Try to be more adventurous in the bedroom and you will notice that more than him you will begin to like it.
Give a man little boredom and his roving eyes will start wondering and before you know it woosh! They are gone.
Relax! This does not happen all the time but you still need to guard against it.
Here is what you can do.
Pay attention to yourself To keep his attention on you will first have to give your physical self a lot of attention.
Never lose sight of the fact that he was first attracted to your fantastic body.
And to keep the excitement going in the relationship you need to possess it all the time.
if you stay in shape and take care of your hair, skin and face he will not have to look elsewhere for excitement.
Naughty demeanor The best way to keep your man's attention is to prove to him that no one excels in the titillation game but you.
Keep your naughty attitude even if the relation is old.
Men just want to talk and hear dirty and corny stuff.
So, what is the harm in playing along so long as it does not demean you? Retain the freshness Just because you are now in a steady relationship it does not mean that you can relax.
Well, you have to continuously surprise him with your spontaneity.
Predictability is your relationship's worst enemy.
Keep him engaged by revealing a new side of you whenever you feel that he is on the verge of getting bored.
It need not always be sexual but see that you as a person excite him.
Don't try to control him Men do not like to be controlled by their women.
Give him the independence to do what he likes so long as it does not cause him and you any harm.
Drinking himself silly at the pub or bar with his friends once in a while is okay.
He needs to distress and if drink solves the problem then so be it.
However, it should not be an everyday excuse.
Take ownership of some aspects If it is the financial stress that is getting to him then you too can start working and take care of a few bills.
If you are already working then you may encourage him to upgrade his skills so that he remains employable.
If need be tell him that he can take a 6 to 8 month hiatus from running the house and that you will run it so that he can acquire new skills.
TLC TLC means tender loving care.
When a man gets this he becomes painfully aware that he will not get all this from someone else.
When you make it your business to do this you will be rewarded with his uninterrupted attention.
Make the sex more interesting Sexual monotony is another relationship breaker.
Men easily get bored with the same moves and same body.
Now you can't change your body altogether, however, you certainly can learn new moves or bring some more unpredictability to your lovemaking.
Try to be more adventurous in the bedroom and you will notice that more than him you will begin to like it.
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