There are many ways in which you can read the signs that tell you if he is serious about you or not. If you are afraid that he is just using you and does not want to commit, then look for these signs that will let you know the truth about him.
He will always lie and make excuses
Check and see how often you have noticed him lying about his whereabouts. If you have found yourself becoming more and more skeptical about his excuses and his glib stories then you should trust his instincts and be wary of him. Most probably he is lying to you because he is not serious about you at all.
The subject of commitment will be taboo for him
If he has no plans to commit to you, then the very subject of marriage, commitment etc will be taboo where he is concerned. Because he is guilty of using you and does not want to commit to you, he will hate to get into a discussion about the future. Test him by trying to talk to him about commitment and check his reaction.
He will become uncomfortable when confronted about commitment
A guy who is not planning on committing to any girl is a guy who enjoys his bachelorhood or single status too much to want to give it up! He will be uncomfortable when faced with questions about commitment. He will hate the idea of being questioned by a woman because he wants to get away with just dating her.
He will try to put things off
There is no doubt that if he is trying to just use you and has no plans of committing to you in any way, he will never want to talk about a long term commitment with you. He will put things off and pretend that he is not in the mood to discuss marriage or he is unwell at the moment - anything to delay the moment of truth!
He won't introduce you to his folk
There is no way a man who has no intentions of settling down or committing is going to introduce you to his folk. The very fact that he intends to keep you a secret from his family should warn you of the fact that he is just using you and does not want to commit to you.
He will be easily distracted
If he is serious about you, then you will have his wholehearted and devoted attention at all times. He will want to talk about the future and will not baulk at the idea of marriage. You will be the center of his world. On the other hand he will be easily distracted or bored in your company if he is not serious about you.
He will have a roving eye
One can easily detect a philanderer or a flirt by his behavior around other women. If you find that your guy definitely has a roving eye and can't help flirting with others it should tell you that he will never commit and is not ready for a long term relationship.
He will always lie and make excuses
Check and see how often you have noticed him lying about his whereabouts. If you have found yourself becoming more and more skeptical about his excuses and his glib stories then you should trust his instincts and be wary of him. Most probably he is lying to you because he is not serious about you at all.
The subject of commitment will be taboo for him
If he has no plans to commit to you, then the very subject of marriage, commitment etc will be taboo where he is concerned. Because he is guilty of using you and does not want to commit to you, he will hate to get into a discussion about the future. Test him by trying to talk to him about commitment and check his reaction.
He will become uncomfortable when confronted about commitment
A guy who is not planning on committing to any girl is a guy who enjoys his bachelorhood or single status too much to want to give it up! He will be uncomfortable when faced with questions about commitment. He will hate the idea of being questioned by a woman because he wants to get away with just dating her.
He will try to put things off
There is no doubt that if he is trying to just use you and has no plans of committing to you in any way, he will never want to talk about a long term commitment with you. He will put things off and pretend that he is not in the mood to discuss marriage or he is unwell at the moment - anything to delay the moment of truth!
He won't introduce you to his folk
There is no way a man who has no intentions of settling down or committing is going to introduce you to his folk. The very fact that he intends to keep you a secret from his family should warn you of the fact that he is just using you and does not want to commit to you.
He will be easily distracted
If he is serious about you, then you will have his wholehearted and devoted attention at all times. He will want to talk about the future and will not baulk at the idea of marriage. You will be the center of his world. On the other hand he will be easily distracted or bored in your company if he is not serious about you.
He will have a roving eye
One can easily detect a philanderer or a flirt by his behavior around other women. If you find that your guy definitely has a roving eye and can't help flirting with others it should tell you that he will never commit and is not ready for a long term relationship.
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