There are loads of horrible stories about the very first kiss.
Some men gnashed teeth with the woman and got her lips bloodied.
The first kiss with a woman is almost always uncomfortable.
Do not let these stories get to you no matter how horrifying they are.
Your first kiss with the girl you want to date can turn out okay.
Here are some suggestions on how to get the first kiss.
Three Steps to Getting the First Kiss Step One.
Correct Timing The good bye kiss, or the kiss you share after the date, should never be your first kiss.
To make the kiss work, you shouldn't wait until then to go for it.
This means that during the date, you must be able to "score".
Sharing your first kiss after the date can be disastrous because you have no idea how she responded to the kiss.
It's great to see a woman react positively to the kiss, so you shouldn't miss it.
You won't get to see her face light up or blush at the memory.
If she hates it, you wouldn't be able to follow up because she will never report you that the kiss was horrible.
Again, kiss her during the date, and then you can kiss again afterward.
A good time to kiss her is while you are both having fun.
The timing is right when you are both having fun.
You can start with a hug to measure the level of comfort.
Go for a peck, and then some serious kissing next.
Step Two.
Groundwork Even kissing requires foreplay.
Preparing her for a kiss is not as challenging as it seems.
You just ought to keep the mood going, and judge when it's time for the kiss.
You can take her for a walk around the park and kiss in a relatively secluded place.
If you're jogging, bring a canteen of water that you can share.
Sharing a drink is one way to prepare for the kiss.
The thought of drinking from something you've touched may give her ideas.
Step Three.
Placement Positioning is very important.
If the proximity is not good, you will find it awkward leaning over to kiss her.
Instead of taking that extra step, make sure you are already in position before you even ask to kiss her.
Be close enough to touch your lips on her hair.
For this reason, you should never sit across her when there's a way so that you can sit next to her.
Do an easy test.
Give her a cheek kiss.
If she doesn't resist, then you can find the confidence to kiss her lips after that.
Tilt her chin, stroke her hair and bring her close.