If we are not getting the online results we want, we usually need to return to our profile and clean it up.
While cleaning it up, this is usually what we will find...
Photos: Bad photos, out of focused photos, photos in too small washed out t-shirts, knit dresses so tight we look pregnant...
from all directions! We have too sexy photos that shouldn't be displayed any where on a public forum.
Photos that should only be shared with intimate friends...
not hoards of strangers! We have photos from our last 4 weddings...
a bit of overkill for the commitment phobic type.
Get rid of the bad photos! On the opening profile page, have one attractive, clear, focused, flattering photo of you...
and you alone.
Not one with you and your last boyfriend that you cut the head off of...
but left the remaining parts of his body! Next, please double check your user name.
Is there a sexual overtone or even an undertone? Is that what you want? I mean, it is okay if that is what you want...
If a lot of sexually charged emails, complete with crude propositions are not for you? Then you may want to change your user name.
It can be a nickname, pet name, a favorite mythical character name or anything that is tasteful and fun.
Finally, look at the essay portion of your profile.
Does it say "You"? If not, rethink and rework the essay and the additional questions most online dating sites include.
So, start with the photo and work your way down.
Clean up your profile, and your responses will change drastically! Hurry up...
a lot of singles are waiting to check out your fresh, newly re-vamped profile!