All women begin to wonder about how to keep a man after the new has worn off the relationship.
Sometimes there's nothing to indicate anything is amiss, it's just a worry without foundation.
If you don't want him to think about going somewhere else, it's a good idea to work on your place in his life.
See if these ideas will help.
Don't Get Complacent One of the first problems with any relationship is when one or both parties become more interested in what's happening somewhere else rather than at home.
Even if people are in love, they can drift apart because they get complacent.
You don't work to get into a love affair; you work to stay there.
Keep the Competition Down Don't start thinking that your man is so steady that you can expose him to temptation.
You shouldn't keep him under lock and key away from other girls, but you shouldn't provide him with opportunities to get interested in someone else, either.
He should be seeing you most of the time, not other girls.
Learn What He Wants in a Relationship It's a simple thing to be concerned about, but it is often missed.
If you believe he only wants to do what you do, you are naive.
If you want him to stay, you'd better make sure you know what he's looking for.
Keep on Good Terms with His Friends His best friend might not be your favorite person, but he got the billing for some reason.
You may have to bite your tongue sometimes.
If the guy is so repulsive you can't stand to be around him, find excuses to put as much distance between the two of you as possible.
Don't put a strain on your relationship because of his pal.
Make Sure He Knows How You Feel The last thing he should think is that you aren't satisfied.
It's all right to complain sometimes, but don't make it seem that he's at fault.
Every chance you get you should tell him how you feel about him.
All the trivial stuff won't matter that much.
Test the Waters of the Green Monster A little jealousy doesn't hurt if it doesn't go too far.
It is good for him to get a twinge of concern when you appear to be comfortable with someone else.
Don't carry it to an extreme; just do enough to see if he minds.
If he does, quickly make sure he knows you still love him.
Keep Him Wanting More You can't keep a man if he doesn't want you.
Don't let him get tired of what he's got with you.
Try to keep him entertained with your lives together.
A man doesn't stray without a cause.
Sometimes there's nothing to indicate anything is amiss, it's just a worry without foundation.
If you don't want him to think about going somewhere else, it's a good idea to work on your place in his life.
See if these ideas will help.
Don't Get Complacent One of the first problems with any relationship is when one or both parties become more interested in what's happening somewhere else rather than at home.
Even if people are in love, they can drift apart because they get complacent.
You don't work to get into a love affair; you work to stay there.
Keep the Competition Down Don't start thinking that your man is so steady that you can expose him to temptation.
You shouldn't keep him under lock and key away from other girls, but you shouldn't provide him with opportunities to get interested in someone else, either.
He should be seeing you most of the time, not other girls.
Learn What He Wants in a Relationship It's a simple thing to be concerned about, but it is often missed.
If you believe he only wants to do what you do, you are naive.
If you want him to stay, you'd better make sure you know what he's looking for.
Keep on Good Terms with His Friends His best friend might not be your favorite person, but he got the billing for some reason.
You may have to bite your tongue sometimes.
If the guy is so repulsive you can't stand to be around him, find excuses to put as much distance between the two of you as possible.
Don't put a strain on your relationship because of his pal.
Make Sure He Knows How You Feel The last thing he should think is that you aren't satisfied.
It's all right to complain sometimes, but don't make it seem that he's at fault.
Every chance you get you should tell him how you feel about him.
All the trivial stuff won't matter that much.
Test the Waters of the Green Monster A little jealousy doesn't hurt if it doesn't go too far.
It is good for him to get a twinge of concern when you appear to be comfortable with someone else.
Don't carry it to an extreme; just do enough to see if he minds.
If he does, quickly make sure he knows you still love him.
Keep Him Wanting More You can't keep a man if he doesn't want you.
Don't let him get tired of what he's got with you.
Try to keep him entertained with your lives together.
A man doesn't stray without a cause.
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