One of the best things you can ever do for your date is lighten up the conversation.
Not only does it break the ice, but it keeps her interest and yours! You see, most men walk into conversations with women on "interview auto pilot", which means they are literally treating it like some sort of interview.
But guess what, obviously it's not an interview, and she's a real person who came out to have a great time with you.
So how exactly do you keep her interested and glued to you simply by lightening up the conversation? Read on to find out the tricks to making any conversation pop..
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Being comfortable with yourself - Let's face it, not every single thing you do or say will be liked by everyone, so why are you expecting her to like everything? If she doesn't like something, move onto the next thing, but what most guys do, is they will drag on that subject, and will feel hurt if she disagrees or doesn't quite feel the same way you do about something.
All that shows her, is that you are not comfortable being yourself.
If you ever want a conversation to naturally flow and become exciting, you have to be willing to let things go and just be in the moment.
Acting rigid and nervous will not win her over, because guess what..
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it also makes her nervous too.
Topics - Almost every guy out there has at one point and time tried dry conversation with a girl, and eventually had bombed their own date literally.
You don't want to bomb your date with dry and boring questions, such as "how many brothers and sisters do you have?" or "where do you work?" etc...
She will get extremely bored fast, and the conversation will go nowhere.
What you want to do, is pick topics that are on the edge, and are not safe, and preferably if you don't know what to talk about, talk about the things people love: Hollywood excitement.
Hollywood excitement - So what is it? In a nutshell there are a few things incorporated into almost every story, headline, movie, and TV show that you see out there, which is popular.
That is drama, comedy, scandals, and misfortunes.
People love talking about these things, and hearing about them; and the best way to bring them up, is to be humorous about it, so that way the conversation starts off in a light manner.
Teasing her - The absolute best thing you can do for your date, is to tease her.
A lot of guys feel afraid to go this route, because they think she may get offended, or that they may say the wrong thing, but the fact of the matter is that she wants to be teased, and wants someone playful.
Women are not robotic creatures, and yes while they do have feelings, the only way you are really going to access those, is if you learn to get a bit playful and harness her emotions that way.
It's also fun for her in the end, because you are making an effort to engage her and it also can quickly show you what she likes, dislikes, and everything else in between; without having to ask all the boring questions.
Not only does it break the ice, but it keeps her interest and yours! You see, most men walk into conversations with women on "interview auto pilot", which means they are literally treating it like some sort of interview.
But guess what, obviously it's not an interview, and she's a real person who came out to have a great time with you.
So how exactly do you keep her interested and glued to you simply by lightening up the conversation? Read on to find out the tricks to making any conversation pop..
...
Being comfortable with yourself - Let's face it, not every single thing you do or say will be liked by everyone, so why are you expecting her to like everything? If she doesn't like something, move onto the next thing, but what most guys do, is they will drag on that subject, and will feel hurt if she disagrees or doesn't quite feel the same way you do about something.
All that shows her, is that you are not comfortable being yourself.
If you ever want a conversation to naturally flow and become exciting, you have to be willing to let things go and just be in the moment.
Acting rigid and nervous will not win her over, because guess what..
..
it also makes her nervous too.
Topics - Almost every guy out there has at one point and time tried dry conversation with a girl, and eventually had bombed their own date literally.
You don't want to bomb your date with dry and boring questions, such as "how many brothers and sisters do you have?" or "where do you work?" etc...
She will get extremely bored fast, and the conversation will go nowhere.
What you want to do, is pick topics that are on the edge, and are not safe, and preferably if you don't know what to talk about, talk about the things people love: Hollywood excitement.
Hollywood excitement - So what is it? In a nutshell there are a few things incorporated into almost every story, headline, movie, and TV show that you see out there, which is popular.
That is drama, comedy, scandals, and misfortunes.
People love talking about these things, and hearing about them; and the best way to bring them up, is to be humorous about it, so that way the conversation starts off in a light manner.
Teasing her - The absolute best thing you can do for your date, is to tease her.
A lot of guys feel afraid to go this route, because they think she may get offended, or that they may say the wrong thing, but the fact of the matter is that she wants to be teased, and wants someone playful.
Women are not robotic creatures, and yes while they do have feelings, the only way you are really going to access those, is if you learn to get a bit playful and harness her emotions that way.
It's also fun for her in the end, because you are making an effort to engage her and it also can quickly show you what she likes, dislikes, and everything else in between; without having to ask all the boring questions.
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