Do you have a hard time understanding what exactly it is that men want and need? Are you successful in every area except your love life? Do you find that men are intimidated by your strength? If you are tired of men saying that they want a strong woman only to find that they are turned off by your strong personality, then this article can help you.
It is important to first understand what goes inside the male brain.
By better understanding the way men think, the more you will understand exactly what they need from a relationship.
Once you understand it, you can take action to give it to them without giving up who you are.
Men are interesting to try to understand.
They say that they want a strong woman.
Yet, these very same men tend to go for women that aren't very responsible or reliable.
Why is this? Well, men tend to follow their hormones instead of their brain.
Now, this really isn't a mystery.
However, so many women tend to forget this one very important aspect when trying to get a guy into a relationship.
Because men follow their hormones, they tend to chase after women that aren't necessarily a good long-term relationship fit for them.
This causes them to chase after women that don't seem responsible or reliable.
These women don't always return calls, they aren't always on time, and they definitely don't dress in a professional manner.
They are filled with mystery and excitement.
These women seem to always be the ones that get the guys.
So, what is a successful business woman to do? These aren't professional practices.
This is not the way she is used to living her life! In order to be successful in the business world, you have to take charge, be prompt, and you never want to leave your phone unanswered! In your career, these are qualities that make you a desirable employee.
However, you cannot treat your love life like your work life.
These personality traits that make you so successful in your business life make you look desperate and boring in your love life.
Since all of this "irresponsible" behavior is foreign to many women who are successful in their careers, we will next discuss how to turn your love life upside down.
First, you need to start dressing the part.
In order to catch and keep a man's attention, you need to appeal to his visual nature.
This does not mean that you have to sacrifice your integrity.
Dressing over the top will give you the appearance of looking cheap and desperate.
Instead, wear things that are made of softer material.
Show a little skin, but not too much.
Examples would be a skirt with a slit or a slightly low cut top.
Also, try to go for softer and more feminine tones in your dating attire.
The next thing you need to do might be a little more difficult.
Stop answering your phone right away.
If you receive a call from a guy, let it go to voicemail.
Return every other call, and make him wait a couple of hours before you do call him back.
You don't have to text back immediately either.
Making him wait will build excitement and will make him feel like he has to chase you in order to get your attention.
Also, let him steer the relationship.
This is one area in your life that you don't have to, and shouldn't take control.
You also want to add some mystery to your personality.
This one is rather easy to do, even if your life may not seem horribly exciting at times.
When he asks what you did last weekend, instead of telling him you had a business lunch, simplify your answer.
Tell him you went out to lunch.
Leave it at that.
You can tell him how much you enjoyed the food, but don't divulge the details of who you were with.
If he asks, just say, "Oh just some people I know.
" This will make him feel like he is missing out on something.
The best part about this whole thing is that eventually, after he takes the time to get to know you and the two of you get to know each other on a more personal level, he will start to see just how wonderful you are.
Men really do want the same things in a relationship as women.
They want a woman who can be a great friend, who is confident, and self-assured.
You possess these wonderful qualities already.
However, a man's initial response to your business persona is that you are desperate.
This is why, in the beginning, you need to know how to get him to chase you.
If you follow these guidelines, chase you he will.
It is important to first understand what goes inside the male brain.
By better understanding the way men think, the more you will understand exactly what they need from a relationship.
Once you understand it, you can take action to give it to them without giving up who you are.
Men are interesting to try to understand.
They say that they want a strong woman.
Yet, these very same men tend to go for women that aren't very responsible or reliable.
Why is this? Well, men tend to follow their hormones instead of their brain.
Now, this really isn't a mystery.
However, so many women tend to forget this one very important aspect when trying to get a guy into a relationship.
Because men follow their hormones, they tend to chase after women that aren't necessarily a good long-term relationship fit for them.
This causes them to chase after women that don't seem responsible or reliable.
These women don't always return calls, they aren't always on time, and they definitely don't dress in a professional manner.
They are filled with mystery and excitement.
These women seem to always be the ones that get the guys.
So, what is a successful business woman to do? These aren't professional practices.
This is not the way she is used to living her life! In order to be successful in the business world, you have to take charge, be prompt, and you never want to leave your phone unanswered! In your career, these are qualities that make you a desirable employee.
However, you cannot treat your love life like your work life.
These personality traits that make you so successful in your business life make you look desperate and boring in your love life.
Since all of this "irresponsible" behavior is foreign to many women who are successful in their careers, we will next discuss how to turn your love life upside down.
First, you need to start dressing the part.
In order to catch and keep a man's attention, you need to appeal to his visual nature.
This does not mean that you have to sacrifice your integrity.
Dressing over the top will give you the appearance of looking cheap and desperate.
Instead, wear things that are made of softer material.
Show a little skin, but not too much.
Examples would be a skirt with a slit or a slightly low cut top.
Also, try to go for softer and more feminine tones in your dating attire.
The next thing you need to do might be a little more difficult.
Stop answering your phone right away.
If you receive a call from a guy, let it go to voicemail.
Return every other call, and make him wait a couple of hours before you do call him back.
You don't have to text back immediately either.
Making him wait will build excitement and will make him feel like he has to chase you in order to get your attention.
Also, let him steer the relationship.
This is one area in your life that you don't have to, and shouldn't take control.
You also want to add some mystery to your personality.
This one is rather easy to do, even if your life may not seem horribly exciting at times.
When he asks what you did last weekend, instead of telling him you had a business lunch, simplify your answer.
Tell him you went out to lunch.
Leave it at that.
You can tell him how much you enjoyed the food, but don't divulge the details of who you were with.
If he asks, just say, "Oh just some people I know.
" This will make him feel like he is missing out on something.
The best part about this whole thing is that eventually, after he takes the time to get to know you and the two of you get to know each other on a more personal level, he will start to see just how wonderful you are.
Men really do want the same things in a relationship as women.
They want a woman who can be a great friend, who is confident, and self-assured.
You possess these wonderful qualities already.
However, a man's initial response to your business persona is that you are desperate.
This is why, in the beginning, you need to know how to get him to chase you.
If you follow these guidelines, chase you he will.
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