OK, you want to enjoy a relationship with a beautiful Filipina lady, but you're worried.
How can you safely start Philippine Dating online without being scammed? And like everything, you think "It can't possibly happen to me" but it does - it happens to a lot of guys, they fall in love online and sometimes not even with a real person but with a fake profile photo.
Then being decent guys, they want to look after their new found love and they will offer to help out with her expenses, her schooling and start sending money.
Now that is all great when you chance upon a genuine person, but wherever there is money to be made, there are criminals making it and the same is true for Philippine dating.
Scammers will put up several profiles and communicate with multiple men at the same time, mimicking a loving lady and tricking them into believing they are involved in a serious relationship with someone who really cares about them.
Of course when the man finally learns the truth, he is devastated.
All his dreams are shattered and he is left feeling completely used, even violated.
So guys, before you get in too deep, do a few basic checks.
A good one to do is to look around at other dating sites and other profiles.
If you see the lady's photo under a different name somewhere, you know she is a scammer.
She might not even be a lady, you might be pouring your heart out to another guy who is just pumping you for money.
Next, ask her to add you to her Facebook.
If you're not already on Facebook, join up, create a profile.
Now if you are communicating with a Filipino lady over the internet and she says she doesn't have a Facebook profile, be very careful.
Almost everyone here does.
If she is genuine and is really interested in a relationship with you, she'll add you to her Facebook.
The first thing you should see there are lots of photos.
Filipino ladies love to take photos and now with a camera in every cellphone, everybody has that ability.
If there are no photos on her profile, she is possibly not a real person.
With Facebook, you can also see who her friends are and what her interests are.
That old saying "Birds of a Feather" is as true on the internet as it is offline.
If her friends are party animals, she probably is too and there is a likelihood that she is not going to settle down to be a housewife terribly easily.
Also take a look at the posts on her Facebook "wall" and the discussions she is participating in.
The things she likes and the places she goes.
You will also be able to tell from photos and discussions how serious she is with other guys.
Try posting on her wall or commenting on a discussion she has started.
See how she interacts with you.
Is she proud to present you to her friends and family or a little embarrassed about you being there? Remember, this is one of the most important decisions you are going to make in your lifetime.
A good relationship will allow both of you to thrive and prosper, but a badly chosen partner can result in years of stress and financial and emotional ruin.
Do your research and make the most out of Philippine dating with a beautiful partner who will enrich your life.
How can you safely start Philippine Dating online without being scammed? And like everything, you think "It can't possibly happen to me" but it does - it happens to a lot of guys, they fall in love online and sometimes not even with a real person but with a fake profile photo.
Then being decent guys, they want to look after their new found love and they will offer to help out with her expenses, her schooling and start sending money.
Now that is all great when you chance upon a genuine person, but wherever there is money to be made, there are criminals making it and the same is true for Philippine dating.
Scammers will put up several profiles and communicate with multiple men at the same time, mimicking a loving lady and tricking them into believing they are involved in a serious relationship with someone who really cares about them.
Of course when the man finally learns the truth, he is devastated.
All his dreams are shattered and he is left feeling completely used, even violated.
So guys, before you get in too deep, do a few basic checks.
A good one to do is to look around at other dating sites and other profiles.
If you see the lady's photo under a different name somewhere, you know she is a scammer.
She might not even be a lady, you might be pouring your heart out to another guy who is just pumping you for money.
Next, ask her to add you to her Facebook.
If you're not already on Facebook, join up, create a profile.
Now if you are communicating with a Filipino lady over the internet and she says she doesn't have a Facebook profile, be very careful.
Almost everyone here does.
If she is genuine and is really interested in a relationship with you, she'll add you to her Facebook.
The first thing you should see there are lots of photos.
Filipino ladies love to take photos and now with a camera in every cellphone, everybody has that ability.
If there are no photos on her profile, she is possibly not a real person.
With Facebook, you can also see who her friends are and what her interests are.
That old saying "Birds of a Feather" is as true on the internet as it is offline.
If her friends are party animals, she probably is too and there is a likelihood that she is not going to settle down to be a housewife terribly easily.
Also take a look at the posts on her Facebook "wall" and the discussions she is participating in.
The things she likes and the places she goes.
You will also be able to tell from photos and discussions how serious she is with other guys.
Try posting on her wall or commenting on a discussion she has started.
See how she interacts with you.
Is she proud to present you to her friends and family or a little embarrassed about you being there? Remember, this is one of the most important decisions you are going to make in your lifetime.
A good relationship will allow both of you to thrive and prosper, but a badly chosen partner can result in years of stress and financial and emotional ruin.
Do your research and make the most out of Philippine dating with a beautiful partner who will enrich your life.
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