What are the secrets when it comes to getting that girl to go out with you and what kind of thinking should you have already done?
Here are some very effective dating tips that will help you to get that vital first impression to make her feel that you are doing something right.
Women actually want to have sex as much as men! They love the feeling of being enthralled into the sexual experience. The one thing that men don't seem to get is that women actually do not want to be part of the whole enticing process. It is important that men understand the value of silent seduction. They want to feel as though you are tempting them from a point where you don't notice them, as it makes them wonder more about the mystique that surrounds your being.
When you thrust yourself into this process of seduction, you can be sure to get all the women that you want to go out with in no time at all. Do not be so obvious with what you are trying to do as this will only deflect any possibility for the two of you to hook up. Women do not want to feel as though they are the target of your attention, as they want as much as possible to feel as though you are playing hard to get. Seduction is not the key, make her feel relaxed.
It is a common misconception that the idea of getting a girl is just to get her in bed. But the truth is that the idea of sex is already fine with them. The idea of getting it on with someone is their problem. So it has to be your initiative to make the woman feel that you are the right one, as this will make her feel comfortable to give it to you. This will happen through certain contacts, like touching and maybe even a bit of flirting.
At first, you have to be playful but safe. And from there, you can apply a few physical contacts like touching. This will carry over to the next things on this list.
For the start of your date, it is better that you make her feel at home in your home. Then from there, the two of you can figure out where you want to go next. It's a great strategy, since with her car being parked at your house, you don't have to ask the question of whether or not she wants to come over after you go out on your date. This will make a lot of things easier on your part, since you don't have to face her and tell her that you want a moment with her in your house. Sure, she may just want you to invite her to come over to your house. But again, you do not want to look as though you are giving yourself away.
Never ever beg her to do what you want.
One of the things that men are most guilty of when it comes to seduction is that they can't seem to figure out what the right moves are, meaning holding back on what you want to really say. If the girl tells you that she wants that intimate physical contact, don't give into what she wants just yet. The same goes when she suddenly wants you to pucker up. But when it does come to the point when you are the one holding her hand or kissing her, be the first one to let go. Never ever be the one to let go of anything before she does. In a way, you are teasing her with these types of actions, as this is clearly what she wants you to do.
You will find other seduction tips that will provide the right kind of knowledge you need when it comes to interacting with women. But through thorough repetition, you will find the ones listed above as enough for your cause. If you're still single and can't find a girlfriend, then visit my site to get the best tips on how to get a girlfriend fast.
So what is the answer to one of the most commonly asked question in dating ever since the beginning of time: how do I turn a friend in to a lover?
It's all a matter of know when and how to play your cards right with your target of choice.
These are my 6-steps to get you out of the friend zone and get women sexually interested in you€¦
1. Limit your availability. I'm willing to bet that whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the phone and chat with her for as long as she wants.
You THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth grade, you're building some kind of deep €connection€ with her.
But what you're actually doing is removing ANY sense of mystery about yourself, and letting her know that you have nothing else going in your life€¦ and no other women. This is massively UN-attractive to her.
(I know that when you're a man who is struggling with his dating life, and haven't hooked up with a chick in a while, this takes a LOT of discipline. Your instinct is to make yourself totally available to her and try to spend as much time as possible with her. Well, go ahead and keep doing it this way, if you want to keep wondering why women keep placing you in the friend zone€¦)
2. Until you've slept with a woman, limit your phone chats with her to five minutes. And don't get caught up in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you're a busy man with places to be.
Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock down your plans to see her again. Save the deep conversations for when you are actually spending time with her.
3. Women are moody and emotional. Get used to it, and know how to deal with it. When she start acting weird or distant, she is testing you. She wants to see how you will respond. Do you kiss her and ask her €what's wrong?€ Do you get frustrated and angered?
Or, do you behave like a firm, direct MAN? (Tell her, €Well, I can tell you've got some things on your mind right now, so why don't you take some time to sort it out and get back to me. I've got some things I need to handle right now.€)
4. Her ex-boyfriend is irrelevant. Women commonly use the excuse, €I got out of a bad relationship recently, I don't know if I'm ready for someone new, I don't want to get hurt again,€ etc. The truth is, if she met a confident, attractive man RIGHT NOW who made her feel a sexual connection, she'd forget about her ex-boyfriend in about 2.3 seconds.When she talks about her ex, and how she's €not ready,€ what she really means is that you're not making her feel attraction, and so she's testing you to see what kind of man you are.
You need to put her in a positive, fun state of mind and keep her there. When she thinks of you, she should think of fun times and feeling good about herself.The last thing you want to do is allow her to dwell on her ex-boyfriend and be her €shoulder to cry on.€ If she ever mentions him, change the subject.And never refer to him by name because it only aggravates her emotional state. (Instead, refer to him as €that guy.€ Make him seem irrelevant and insignificant.)
5. Never confess your attraction to her. Women interpret this as a sign of weakness. You've been taught by the media that women want a soft, sensitive guy who isn't afraid to confess his feelings. Actually, the opposite is true. She needs to know you are a strong, emotionally secure and confident MAN.
Once you've got a sexual relationship going with her, and she's bonded to you, feel free to be a sweet, loving boyfriend and do all of the romantic things that drive her wild. But until then, you've got to play it cool.
6. Finally, be willing to €man up€ and walk away. If for whatever reason she just can't sort out her feelings, cut her loose. Trust me, if you were involved with two or three OTHER women right now, you wouldn't have the time or the interest to play games with some chick who can't make up her mind.
When you have multiple options, you will ALWAYS feel confident and in control.
Don't make the mistake that most guys make, and place €all of your eggs in one basket.€ This is also one of the biggest mistakes guys make when they want to turn a friend into something more. They focus too much on one girl.
Once a woman has mentally placed you in €The Friend Zone,€ it's difficult to change her feelings towards you. Id
Here are some very effective dating tips that will help you to get that vital first impression to make her feel that you are doing something right.
Women actually want to have sex as much as men! They love the feeling of being enthralled into the sexual experience. The one thing that men don't seem to get is that women actually do not want to be part of the whole enticing process. It is important that men understand the value of silent seduction. They want to feel as though you are tempting them from a point where you don't notice them, as it makes them wonder more about the mystique that surrounds your being.
When you thrust yourself into this process of seduction, you can be sure to get all the women that you want to go out with in no time at all. Do not be so obvious with what you are trying to do as this will only deflect any possibility for the two of you to hook up. Women do not want to feel as though they are the target of your attention, as they want as much as possible to feel as though you are playing hard to get. Seduction is not the key, make her feel relaxed.
It is a common misconception that the idea of getting a girl is just to get her in bed. But the truth is that the idea of sex is already fine with them. The idea of getting it on with someone is their problem. So it has to be your initiative to make the woman feel that you are the right one, as this will make her feel comfortable to give it to you. This will happen through certain contacts, like touching and maybe even a bit of flirting.
At first, you have to be playful but safe. And from there, you can apply a few physical contacts like touching. This will carry over to the next things on this list.
For the start of your date, it is better that you make her feel at home in your home. Then from there, the two of you can figure out where you want to go next. It's a great strategy, since with her car being parked at your house, you don't have to ask the question of whether or not she wants to come over after you go out on your date. This will make a lot of things easier on your part, since you don't have to face her and tell her that you want a moment with her in your house. Sure, she may just want you to invite her to come over to your house. But again, you do not want to look as though you are giving yourself away.
Never ever beg her to do what you want.
One of the things that men are most guilty of when it comes to seduction is that they can't seem to figure out what the right moves are, meaning holding back on what you want to really say. If the girl tells you that she wants that intimate physical contact, don't give into what she wants just yet. The same goes when she suddenly wants you to pucker up. But when it does come to the point when you are the one holding her hand or kissing her, be the first one to let go. Never ever be the one to let go of anything before she does. In a way, you are teasing her with these types of actions, as this is clearly what she wants you to do.
You will find other seduction tips that will provide the right kind of knowledge you need when it comes to interacting with women. But through thorough repetition, you will find the ones listed above as enough for your cause. If you're still single and can't find a girlfriend, then visit my site to get the best tips on how to get a girlfriend fast.
So what is the answer to one of the most commonly asked question in dating ever since the beginning of time: how do I turn a friend in to a lover?
It's all a matter of know when and how to play your cards right with your target of choice.
These are my 6-steps to get you out of the friend zone and get women sexually interested in you€¦
1. Limit your availability. I'm willing to bet that whenever this girl does call you, you eagerly answer the phone and chat with her for as long as she wants.
You THINK that when you spend two hours on the phone with her, sharing your life stories and telling her about the girl who broke your heart when you were in the tenth grade, you're building some kind of deep €connection€ with her.
But what you're actually doing is removing ANY sense of mystery about yourself, and letting her know that you have nothing else going in your life€¦ and no other women. This is massively UN-attractive to her.
(I know that when you're a man who is struggling with his dating life, and haven't hooked up with a chick in a while, this takes a LOT of discipline. Your instinct is to make yourself totally available to her and try to spend as much time as possible with her. Well, go ahead and keep doing it this way, if you want to keep wondering why women keep placing you in the friend zone€¦)
2. Until you've slept with a woman, limit your phone chats with her to five minutes. And don't get caught up in constant text-messaging. Give her the sense that you're a busy man with places to be.
Use these short phone calls, or text exchanges, to lock down your plans to see her again. Save the deep conversations for when you are actually spending time with her.
3. Women are moody and emotional. Get used to it, and know how to deal with it. When she start acting weird or distant, she is testing you. She wants to see how you will respond. Do you kiss her and ask her €what's wrong?€ Do you get frustrated and angered?
Or, do you behave like a firm, direct MAN? (Tell her, €Well, I can tell you've got some things on your mind right now, so why don't you take some time to sort it out and get back to me. I've got some things I need to handle right now.€)
4. Her ex-boyfriend is irrelevant. Women commonly use the excuse, €I got out of a bad relationship recently, I don't know if I'm ready for someone new, I don't want to get hurt again,€ etc. The truth is, if she met a confident, attractive man RIGHT NOW who made her feel a sexual connection, she'd forget about her ex-boyfriend in about 2.3 seconds.When she talks about her ex, and how she's €not ready,€ what she really means is that you're not making her feel attraction, and so she's testing you to see what kind of man you are.
You need to put her in a positive, fun state of mind and keep her there. When she thinks of you, she should think of fun times and feeling good about herself.The last thing you want to do is allow her to dwell on her ex-boyfriend and be her €shoulder to cry on.€ If she ever mentions him, change the subject.And never refer to him by name because it only aggravates her emotional state. (Instead, refer to him as €that guy.€ Make him seem irrelevant and insignificant.)
5. Never confess your attraction to her. Women interpret this as a sign of weakness. You've been taught by the media that women want a soft, sensitive guy who isn't afraid to confess his feelings. Actually, the opposite is true. She needs to know you are a strong, emotionally secure and confident MAN.
Once you've got a sexual relationship going with her, and she's bonded to you, feel free to be a sweet, loving boyfriend and do all of the romantic things that drive her wild. But until then, you've got to play it cool.
6. Finally, be willing to €man up€ and walk away. If for whatever reason she just can't sort out her feelings, cut her loose. Trust me, if you were involved with two or three OTHER women right now, you wouldn't have the time or the interest to play games with some chick who can't make up her mind.
When you have multiple options, you will ALWAYS feel confident and in control.
Don't make the mistake that most guys make, and place €all of your eggs in one basket.€ This is also one of the biggest mistakes guys make when they want to turn a friend into something more. They focus too much on one girl.
Once a woman has mentally placed you in €The Friend Zone,€ it's difficult to change her feelings towards you. Id
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