I'm sure we have all seen this scene.
The hero of the movie has brushed off the kind of hardships that would crush any other man and the only thing left is to get the girl.
She falls into his arms and the lights turn low.
After what the segues assure us is a long time, they finally come to orgasm at exactly the same time.
What a guy! The reality is that reliably having a simultaneous orgasm can take a bit of practice.
This is mostly because both of you have to be able to judge exactly how close to coming the other is.
It is very easy to ejaculate a little too early.
The rewards for getting it right, however, are amazing, as the combined energy is an amazing boost.
Mastering this technique involves two things: getting intimate knowledge of each others' body and orgasmic control.
Mastering Orgasmic Control The techniques for getting awesome trigger control takes a bit of work, but is well worth it.
The first step is mastering your Kegel exercises: orgasmic control is easy if you can have multiple ones! This is an important technique, but there is another technique that is useful.
The easiest way to learn the control necessary for the simultaneous orgasm is to understand your body.
Arousal takes place in a number of stages, these are not as important as the final two stages: the Point of No Return (PNR) and the ejaculation.
The PNR is the point where you cannot turn back and you will climax whether you want to or not.
The purpose of this practice is to find out exactly where your PNR lies.
This technique can take 30 days or so to perfect! Control for Simultaneous Orgasm Your goal is to bring yourself as close to the PNR as you can without going beyond it into ejaculation, then allowing yourself to calm down.
The first couple of times you will go over and orgasm.
That is no problem you are learning a new technique, so enjoy the experience.
Once you get the hang of it, you will want to bring yourself up to just beneath your PNR, then let yourself relax until you are in the early stages of arousal.
This is one time, ideally you will want to do it more, preferably as many as ten times! Keep practicing this until you have this technique mastered.
To convert this into a simultaneous orgasm you will want to bring yourself up to just below your PNR, then change to either oral sex as you calm down.
If you do not prefer to mix penetrative and non-penetrative sex, roll your hips across her clitoris as you calm down as this will allow you to keep penetration going while resetting your arousal.
As she comes to the climax, you will want to use a trigger image to get yourself to ejaculate.
A trigger image is any image or theme that gets you to ejaculate quickly.
You will need to know your woman's arousal intimately as it can be difficult to pinpoint the exact moment she orgasms.
Once you have the technique down, you can time all of your waves of arousal with her and when you finally have the simultaneous orgasm at her peak, it will be like some kind of tantric awesomeness! These techniques will give you the kind of awesome sex that will drive both of you wild.
The best thing to remember is that sex should never become a series of artificial techniques that take precedence to the enjoyment of the sex.
However by using techniques in the right way, you can take the sex to the next level.
The hero of the movie has brushed off the kind of hardships that would crush any other man and the only thing left is to get the girl.
She falls into his arms and the lights turn low.
After what the segues assure us is a long time, they finally come to orgasm at exactly the same time.
What a guy! The reality is that reliably having a simultaneous orgasm can take a bit of practice.
This is mostly because both of you have to be able to judge exactly how close to coming the other is.
It is very easy to ejaculate a little too early.
The rewards for getting it right, however, are amazing, as the combined energy is an amazing boost.
Mastering this technique involves two things: getting intimate knowledge of each others' body and orgasmic control.
Mastering Orgasmic Control The techniques for getting awesome trigger control takes a bit of work, but is well worth it.
The first step is mastering your Kegel exercises: orgasmic control is easy if you can have multiple ones! This is an important technique, but there is another technique that is useful.
The easiest way to learn the control necessary for the simultaneous orgasm is to understand your body.
Arousal takes place in a number of stages, these are not as important as the final two stages: the Point of No Return (PNR) and the ejaculation.
The PNR is the point where you cannot turn back and you will climax whether you want to or not.
The purpose of this practice is to find out exactly where your PNR lies.
This technique can take 30 days or so to perfect! Control for Simultaneous Orgasm Your goal is to bring yourself as close to the PNR as you can without going beyond it into ejaculation, then allowing yourself to calm down.
The first couple of times you will go over and orgasm.
That is no problem you are learning a new technique, so enjoy the experience.
Once you get the hang of it, you will want to bring yourself up to just beneath your PNR, then let yourself relax until you are in the early stages of arousal.
This is one time, ideally you will want to do it more, preferably as many as ten times! Keep practicing this until you have this technique mastered.
To convert this into a simultaneous orgasm you will want to bring yourself up to just below your PNR, then change to either oral sex as you calm down.
If you do not prefer to mix penetrative and non-penetrative sex, roll your hips across her clitoris as you calm down as this will allow you to keep penetration going while resetting your arousal.
As she comes to the climax, you will want to use a trigger image to get yourself to ejaculate.
A trigger image is any image or theme that gets you to ejaculate quickly.
You will need to know your woman's arousal intimately as it can be difficult to pinpoint the exact moment she orgasms.
Once you have the technique down, you can time all of your waves of arousal with her and when you finally have the simultaneous orgasm at her peak, it will be like some kind of tantric awesomeness! These techniques will give you the kind of awesome sex that will drive both of you wild.
The best thing to remember is that sex should never become a series of artificial techniques that take precedence to the enjoyment of the sex.
However by using techniques in the right way, you can take the sex to the next level.
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