It is really very tough to understand when someone is taking your advantage, especially when it is by someone who is your partner. This may be the way you two had always been together, so it is difficult to start suspecting someone on his or her behavior.
Staying close to somebody who is nothing but an emotional abuser makes your mind clouded and your thinking influenced. On the other hand if the culprit is, someone not so close you might be able to see things more objectively.
With a clear mind, it is easier to judge the tactics the personmanipulating you uses. If someone is trying to manipulate you, remember you are not responsible for anyone else happiness of someone else. It is always advisable to break up and let that person stay away from your emotions.
Prevent the person from using his dirty tactics by letting him know that you are aware of his intentions you are not going to tolerate it. It is a very bold step in breaking free from such dirty tactics.
Manipulation is a common event today:
Most unfortunately, many of us become victims to emotional manipulation at some time or the other in our dating life. We begin a relationship with honesty, stay honestly with our partner, but later realize that the person we love is a false image created to control our feelings.
A habitual manipulator is essentially psychopathic. It is observed many times that I, at one point, dated and loved a psychopath. Some people are expert in manipulation.
Signs to detect the problem:
You need to be cautious to detect emotional manipulation by your date, which means identifying the manipulation tactics. An experienced manipulator use words as their device. They know how to say and to what their heart desires.
 Beware of these manipulators:
 As time passes, the tactics of these manipulators become more and more prominent.When these manipulators ask for another chance after you identify their nature do not ever give it to them.
Your feelings are the best judges you have. If something goes wrong and you are confused then pay close attention to the acts of your date. When their actions do not match their words this might be alarming for you. They might make stories to cover up their lacuna but do not pay any attention.
Staying close to somebody who is nothing but an emotional abuser makes your mind clouded and your thinking influenced. On the other hand if the culprit is, someone not so close you might be able to see things more objectively.
With a clear mind, it is easier to judge the tactics the personmanipulating you uses. If someone is trying to manipulate you, remember you are not responsible for anyone else happiness of someone else. It is always advisable to break up and let that person stay away from your emotions.
Prevent the person from using his dirty tactics by letting him know that you are aware of his intentions you are not going to tolerate it. It is a very bold step in breaking free from such dirty tactics.
Manipulation is a common event today:
Most unfortunately, many of us become victims to emotional manipulation at some time or the other in our dating life. We begin a relationship with honesty, stay honestly with our partner, but later realize that the person we love is a false image created to control our feelings.
A habitual manipulator is essentially psychopathic. It is observed many times that I, at one point, dated and loved a psychopath. Some people are expert in manipulation.
Signs to detect the problem:
You need to be cautious to detect emotional manipulation by your date, which means identifying the manipulation tactics. An experienced manipulator use words as their device. They know how to say and to what their heart desires.
- Remember manipulators do not bother about your needs. They pretend that they do, but they are also good actors. They might even cry before you or perform acts to show anger but they might not be angry at all.
- They might be charming and might be liked and adored by all your friends and family members. They might create an impression of a nice person before others. They make you crazy about them.
- One of their common tactics is flirting. They flirt before you then accuse you of over reacting.
- Many times they involve sadness and violence but one should not to carry the emotional baggage for life.
 Beware of these manipulators:
 As time passes, the tactics of these manipulators become more and more prominent.When these manipulators ask for another chance after you identify their nature do not ever give it to them.
Your feelings are the best judges you have. If something goes wrong and you are confused then pay close attention to the acts of your date. When their actions do not match their words this might be alarming for you. They might make stories to cover up their lacuna but do not pay any attention.
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