Finding New Romance - How to Become a "Love Detective"
So you've had enough with losers who impose themselves as that perfect someone and you're ready for a new romance! You may be wondering why it is so difficult for people to reveal their true selves online. Are they playing a game or are they enjoying your misery as being their scapegoat for cruel jokes? While you may never know the actual reasons behind those who feign with a fictitious identity, the one-time solution to end your misery could be to learn how to decipher hidden messages in an online profile.
So here's how you could bring on the love detective in you to find a new romance:
--Learn To Read Between Lines - if you are looking for a man who is protective and trustworthy, the least you'd expect of him is to treat you like a replacement for someone else. If you find an attractive man's profile that indicates he's ready to settle down and have a family but if the profile also indicates that he broke off with his long term girlfriend of three years recently, you should smell trouble in his claims. Remember that it is natural for every one of us to look for alternatives while going through heartaches. So the least you want to end up is You don't want to end up as someone else's solace and replacement while he clears off emotional baggage. There is NO romance in that!
--Avoid Being Sampled - Many individuals out there are either playing around or looking for casual fun. If you are looking for a new romance and serious relationship, you should first avoid being sampled. What we mean by being sampled is that some men and women take time to juggle through their options in order to find the perfect match. The number one rule about them is that they are not looking for serious relationships. So why waste your time being juggled and sampled around? The moment you see comments such as "prove your worth to me", "are you the one?" or "looking for the goddess in you" in an online dating profile, you should know that it's time to click on the next profile.
--Run A Compatibility Check - so you may come across that perfect profile bearing all perfect things you want to hear about a partner. She may be in to fine dining and classical music, or he may be in to movies and adventure trips. While you might be excited to contact this person, some further analysis would save you from a lot of trouble. If you are a man, you may want to ask yourself if you can afford her likes or if you are a woman, you may want to know if you can put up with his hobbies which are likely to take most of his time. If the likes and dislikes sound too demanding such as "my car is my first love" or "my girlfriends are my world", you may want to reconsider your options before considering this as an opportunity for new romance.
Being a love detective and finding new romance is not rocket science. All you need to do differently than what you usually do is to pay closer attention to what is implied by things written in a profile; in other words, don't believe all that you read without seeing evidence to back up the claims!
So you've had enough with losers who impose themselves as that perfect someone and you're ready for a new romance! You may be wondering why it is so difficult for people to reveal their true selves online. Are they playing a game or are they enjoying your misery as being their scapegoat for cruel jokes? While you may never know the actual reasons behind those who feign with a fictitious identity, the one-time solution to end your misery could be to learn how to decipher hidden messages in an online profile.
So here's how you could bring on the love detective in you to find a new romance:
--Learn To Read Between Lines - if you are looking for a man who is protective and trustworthy, the least you'd expect of him is to treat you like a replacement for someone else. If you find an attractive man's profile that indicates he's ready to settle down and have a family but if the profile also indicates that he broke off with his long term girlfriend of three years recently, you should smell trouble in his claims. Remember that it is natural for every one of us to look for alternatives while going through heartaches. So the least you want to end up is You don't want to end up as someone else's solace and replacement while he clears off emotional baggage. There is NO romance in that!
--Avoid Being Sampled - Many individuals out there are either playing around or looking for casual fun. If you are looking for a new romance and serious relationship, you should first avoid being sampled. What we mean by being sampled is that some men and women take time to juggle through their options in order to find the perfect match. The number one rule about them is that they are not looking for serious relationships. So why waste your time being juggled and sampled around? The moment you see comments such as "prove your worth to me", "are you the one?" or "looking for the goddess in you" in an online dating profile, you should know that it's time to click on the next profile.
--Run A Compatibility Check - so you may come across that perfect profile bearing all perfect things you want to hear about a partner. She may be in to fine dining and classical music, or he may be in to movies and adventure trips. While you might be excited to contact this person, some further analysis would save you from a lot of trouble. If you are a man, you may want to ask yourself if you can afford her likes or if you are a woman, you may want to know if you can put up with his hobbies which are likely to take most of his time. If the likes and dislikes sound too demanding such as "my car is my first love" or "my girlfriends are my world", you may want to reconsider your options before considering this as an opportunity for new romance.
Being a love detective and finding new romance is not rocket science. All you need to do differently than what you usually do is to pay closer attention to what is implied by things written in a profile; in other words, don't believe all that you read without seeing evidence to back up the claims!
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