So she's a 'no-show' or canceled on the very last minute? Wow, all those plans ruined and canceled what a waste of time! You may be mad that she didn't show up.
Or you may feel bad and depressed that you're a screw up and you suck with women.
Sound Familiar? Well if you do feel this way-Don't! This has happened to countless men through existence! Its most likely not you, its her! This is just women behavior! Women are Flaky.
Why should you take a bad behavior trait of theirs and own it as your own? You shouldn't.
You may have heard before women are over ran by emotions, as men are ran by logic and reason.
So really who knows why she couldn't make it or show up? It could've been a legit reason "like her dog broke a window...
", she just didn't "feel pretty that day", or she might not be feeling flirty.
So in their head, however they feel that moment is enough justification to either go with you or not! Do you see how illogical this is, if we told someone we were going to be somewhere our reason for not going somewhere would be based on something out of our control, like a flat tire, late from work, forgot, & etc.
Many times if you sit and dwell on the subject you may get angry, but Anger is death to attraction.
And many women will get weirded out by you getting mad at her not making it due to her 'so called' legit reason.
You may have it in your mind that "Fine I'll just never give her another chance!" If this is you I would urge you to reconsider, because it isn't just this girl that has this trait.
I would dare say that it is the majority of women that feel & act this way.
So with your unforgiving attitude you maybe passing up many women before you realize that it's just about all of them that are this way.
I'm here to warn you before you go down that long lonely road.
You just might want to give women a few more chances.
Now I don't mean if one girl just keeps flaking on numerous encounters and you can't seem to ever get her to come through.
You may just need to get a hint, that she doesn't like you and she cant tell you no! And if this is the case you might just want to cut your loses and find one that isn't wasting your time.
Lets role-play.
So you have a date scheduled with a girl and she calls and cancels last minute or just doesn't show.
Keep your cool because you never know what could've happened.
Tell her "it's all-good that it actually works out for the best".
This shows that you're optimistic and you're a busy guy, you had other stuff to do anyways! And she'll wonder why is it best, which will intrigue her.
And tell her that you two will do it again some other time.
This reassures her that you're not mad or pouting because you wouldn't have said that! Then don't talk to her for a couple days, this shows that you're a busy guy and that she's not all you think about and this will get her wondering if she indeed screwed up.
Then reconnect and then eventually reschedule.
And repeat-till you find it necessary to quit.
Lastly never mention that she flaked ever, pretend you forgot all about it.
You may hear a guy say after a girl flakes, that he's done with her and every other girl that does the same.
In fact you may even be here, because I know I was at one point, but that is for those who haven't fully developed in this area.
I know of a few examples of couples I know that at first the girl flaked like the first three dates and because the guy kept his cool.
She decided to go out with him.
Keep in mind some of the highest quality of women are hard to get.