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Pursuing Happiness - What to Avoid

Everyone wants to be happy, but their happiness must not cause other people's suffering, otherwise it is a selfish happiness that is not real.
As a matter of fact, the contradictions one finds when searching for happiness are the most important stages of this journey because people tend to neglect other people's happiness when thinking about their own.
This indifference is responsible for many conflicts that cause pain and even tragedies, especially concerning love relationships with married people.
At this point, we can verify how indispensable moral principles are, since they are the only guides we have when we face the numerous contradictions that appear in our way.
Respect for other people's lives, their companions and their belongings is the only way the human being must protect and guarantee one's psychic health.
Without psychic health and peace, real happiness cannot exist.
If one person's happiness means someone else's pain, this happiness is threatened all the time, it's unfair, and it will cause remorse.
If it doesn't cause remorse, things are not better but worse, because one must be sensitive and empathize with other people's pain in order to be balanced and not cause conflicts and despair in their environment.
A fair happiness is based on what everyone feels.
So, in cases when conflicts emerge from what makes someone happy, the conflicts must be avoided and the person has to understand that their desires are not noble as they are not for the well being of everyone involved.
If a person thinks about this matter with a selfish intent, they will conclude that they do not care about how other people feel but only about how they feel.
However, happiness based on what is bad for someone else is completely false and condemned to disappear beneath all the problems that will arise from such a contradiction.
If they think that they can simply ignore other people's suffering and be indifferent to the unjust way they acted against them, their happiness is cold and cruel and is something that certainly won't last for long.
Real happiness comes only when everyone respects everybody's feelings.
The right person for everyone exists and can be found, but only if they are not mislead by their selfish and ephemeral desires, which may not be real but only an illusion provoked by the wild and evil part of their conscience that is always trying to induce craziness to the human side of their conscience.
One must be very careful when pursuing one's desires because one may be only following the wild conscience's plan, which will imprison one in the labyrinth of craziness and fill his life with despair, instead of providing him with the promised happiness.
Only when we are morally correct can we have peace of mind and hope to build a really happy life, far from the dangers of craziness.
But we never know what to do when facing life's obscure challenges...
That's why we always need the wise orientation from the unconscious that produces our dreams, which can guide us in our dangerous path that is always threatened by many temptations, showing us where we can find real happiness and keep it for life.
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