Intro to Inner-game: I used to think that in order to win a girl over, you needed to take them out and spend lots of money on them.
However after much trial and error I realized that you just had to be easygoing, not come off too needy and show them that they can have a good time around you.
Not just that, you still have to make it significantly clear that you want them for more than just a friend.
In order to do this you have to get them to feel comfortable around you through conversation and confident body language.
What I think is very important is also being able to fit your role as a man.
Act like a man, be a man.
This doesn't mean acting macho.
It means being comfortable in your own shoes.
It's called inner-game.
Inner-game is how you feel about yourself internally.
Meaning if you don't think you are good with women then you won't be.
A man who truly believes in himself and believes he is attractive to women has good inner-game.
Good inner-game is the biggest constituent when it comes to being successful with a woman.
You can achieve good inner-game through being good at a sport.
You can also achieve it by gaining experience with people.
Like I said before, with trial and error you can see what steps are required to make people feel comfortable around you.
I think however, most lack of inner-game stems from fear of rejection and approach anxiety.
The right attitude, I believe is to go into a situation not holding anyone higher than yourself.
Think of everybody as a stranger.
Strangers need gain your respect and prove themselves before you let them join your circle.
Never be to accepting but still remain tactful.
I believe a woman of quality will respect that.
Keeping calm when being disrespected: Never let someone disrespect you without letting them know you take offense.
You can still confront someone without getting in a fight.
If you conquer your fear then you will not give off the essence of weakness and will most likely not run into this issue.
You should never be afraid of any man.
Many fights are started merely because the attacker thinks he can bully someone weaker.
However when you do encounter a jerk then just stand your ground.
Don't escalate, just wait.
If someone decides to put their hands on me, I will by all means defend myself.
Of course only if they choose to do this.
Many people will just toot their horn until they realize that they are just looking like cowards, by not actually doing anything.
Some people will go as far as acting out.
Example being; walking toward you to intimidate but not actually attacking.
These things all happen more often than the actual attack.
So like I said, stand your ground and don't be afraid because even if they are going to attack, the bartender or security are standing around waiting to split it up and the other guy will get kicked out for initiating the problem.
Channeling Negative energy: For me when it comes to stress build-up, I typically will occupy my mind with physical activities.
For example: Going to the gym, Break dance classes, martial-arts, boxing, all these are very beneficial.
Physical activity helps sweat out toxins that build-up in your blood-stream that can leave you feeling anxious or stressed out.
I consider stress negative energy and nothing leaves me feeling better than an intense session of Brazilian Jiu-jitsu or hopping around a gym practicing the things I've learned in my break dancing classes.
These things are what I enjoy.
I suggest getting into something that you like doing as well.
After my workouts I always feel refreshed and much more secure than if I was to just stay home and watch television.
This is also my favorite time to approach a good-looking broad on the street because I always get a positive response and it's much easier to land a number-close.
I believe it's because that healthy feeling that I'm experiencing is radiating as positive energy.
I think when you feel good then women can sense it and they will feel more comfortable with you.
So this is my brief take on inner-game for those interested.
Best of luck.
More advice and tips at GBTN Seduction Community.
However after much trial and error I realized that you just had to be easygoing, not come off too needy and show them that they can have a good time around you.
Not just that, you still have to make it significantly clear that you want them for more than just a friend.
In order to do this you have to get them to feel comfortable around you through conversation and confident body language.
What I think is very important is also being able to fit your role as a man.
Act like a man, be a man.
This doesn't mean acting macho.
It means being comfortable in your own shoes.
It's called inner-game.
Inner-game is how you feel about yourself internally.
Meaning if you don't think you are good with women then you won't be.
A man who truly believes in himself and believes he is attractive to women has good inner-game.
Good inner-game is the biggest constituent when it comes to being successful with a woman.
You can achieve good inner-game through being good at a sport.
You can also achieve it by gaining experience with people.
Like I said before, with trial and error you can see what steps are required to make people feel comfortable around you.
I think however, most lack of inner-game stems from fear of rejection and approach anxiety.
The right attitude, I believe is to go into a situation not holding anyone higher than yourself.
Think of everybody as a stranger.
Strangers need gain your respect and prove themselves before you let them join your circle.
Never be to accepting but still remain tactful.
I believe a woman of quality will respect that.
Keeping calm when being disrespected: Never let someone disrespect you without letting them know you take offense.
You can still confront someone without getting in a fight.
If you conquer your fear then you will not give off the essence of weakness and will most likely not run into this issue.
You should never be afraid of any man.
Many fights are started merely because the attacker thinks he can bully someone weaker.
However when you do encounter a jerk then just stand your ground.
Don't escalate, just wait.
If someone decides to put their hands on me, I will by all means defend myself.
Of course only if they choose to do this.
Many people will just toot their horn until they realize that they are just looking like cowards, by not actually doing anything.
Some people will go as far as acting out.
Example being; walking toward you to intimidate but not actually attacking.
These things all happen more often than the actual attack.
So like I said, stand your ground and don't be afraid because even if they are going to attack, the bartender or security are standing around waiting to split it up and the other guy will get kicked out for initiating the problem.
Channeling Negative energy: For me when it comes to stress build-up, I typically will occupy my mind with physical activities.
For example: Going to the gym, Break dance classes, martial-arts, boxing, all these are very beneficial.
Physical activity helps sweat out toxins that build-up in your blood-stream that can leave you feeling anxious or stressed out.
I consider stress negative energy and nothing leaves me feeling better than an intense session of Brazilian Jiu-jitsu or hopping around a gym practicing the things I've learned in my break dancing classes.
These things are what I enjoy.
I suggest getting into something that you like doing as well.
After my workouts I always feel refreshed and much more secure than if I was to just stay home and watch television.
This is also my favorite time to approach a good-looking broad on the street because I always get a positive response and it's much easier to land a number-close.
I believe it's because that healthy feeling that I'm experiencing is radiating as positive energy.
I think when you feel good then women can sense it and they will feel more comfortable with you.
So this is my brief take on inner-game for those interested.
Best of luck.
More advice and tips at GBTN Seduction Community.
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