As stated above, women are without a doubt the most complex of all creatures that walk our great green earth however this being said, they certainly are my favourite! When it comes to what pleases them or how to pleasure women in bed, it takes a whole variety of methods, tips, techniques and styles to actually bring them to orgasm.
Unless we are selfish lovers, (you wouldn't be reading this article if you were) that is one of the main purposes of sex - bringing your lady to climax.
If you are having trouble bringing your partner to orgasm there could be a number of factors, incidental and environmental, such as: o Setting the right mood (Remember, most women need many things in line before they are ready for intercourse, men just need a place!) o Tiredness including mental tiredness and stress needs to be cleared o All distractions removed o The state of the house o What sort of day your partner has had o Lack of foreplay or compassion and love Aside from these mainly psychological factors, of course there is the physical side of your lovemaking.
Are you lasting long enough to allow her to build to a climax, do you do what she likes you to do etc? If you are expecting to bring your partner to orgasm with sheer intercourse alone then you had better be awesomely and spectacularly great at it or you are doomed to fail! If you even think that penetration is an option before your lady has had her first orgasm then your entrance to the ranks of supreme lover will never happen.
The simple fact is that going down on a woman or performing cunnilingus is absolutely the most vital part of your lovemaking process if indeed your end goal is to bring your partner to a great climax.
So if you are not doing the "groundwork down town" before sex, then you should be! I guarantee that if you commence this pleasurable for both of you activity, your actions will be well rewarded in bed and also out of it! So if you are new to this, or if you already perform oral sex on your partner but can't get your them over the line so to speak, you might well ask, how do I go about it properly? Great question! Basically, there are many techniques but as said above, there is no one magic technique to get the job done as every woman is different.
There is the of course the location of your attention.
Some women love tongue stimulation all over their whole vagina and clitoris while others like it mainly around the clitoris.
Some women love the addition of a finger or two in combination with some great tongue work while others are just way too sensitive for anything but the tongue.
What most women seem to have in common is the speed requirements.
You will have great results in slowly and carefully rolling and moving your tongue all around, a gentle suck on the clitoris here and there and then slowly but surely increasing the speed of your tongue movements in line with your partners increased arousal and closeness to orgasm.
Once your partner starts getting close to climax, this is the time to focus your attention almost solely on the clitoris and in quick time too, with the speed of your movements in line with your partners' closeness to orgasm.
So Jaxon, sounds great but how exactly do I get my partner to this point and what was the magic technique you were talking about? Well here it is! The absolute, most vital, critical point to remember in going down on a woman or indeed pleasuring women in bed on any scale is really quite simple - AWARENESS.
Yep, that's all.
As lovemaking is not a pure science and everyone is different, the big secret is being aware of your partner and never is this more important than during the most intimate act between a man and a women - going down on her.
Every single breath, be it shallow, deep or somewhere in between is a sign on how you are going and how much satisfaction you are providing with that tongue of yours.
Every single movement, no matter how pronounced or subtle, arched back or just a gentle push towards your tongue, perhaps even a slight draw away.
Again, these are all signs of how you are making your lady feel.
They are not as obvious as the loud moans, sheets scrunched up in her tightly clenched hands and scratches down your back but it is in reading these signs and having great awareness on how your partner is feeling which brings her closer and closer to that body shuddering orgasm.
Unless we are selfish lovers, (you wouldn't be reading this article if you were) that is one of the main purposes of sex - bringing your lady to climax.
If you are having trouble bringing your partner to orgasm there could be a number of factors, incidental and environmental, such as: o Setting the right mood (Remember, most women need many things in line before they are ready for intercourse, men just need a place!) o Tiredness including mental tiredness and stress needs to be cleared o All distractions removed o The state of the house o What sort of day your partner has had o Lack of foreplay or compassion and love Aside from these mainly psychological factors, of course there is the physical side of your lovemaking.
Are you lasting long enough to allow her to build to a climax, do you do what she likes you to do etc? If you are expecting to bring your partner to orgasm with sheer intercourse alone then you had better be awesomely and spectacularly great at it or you are doomed to fail! If you even think that penetration is an option before your lady has had her first orgasm then your entrance to the ranks of supreme lover will never happen.
The simple fact is that going down on a woman or performing cunnilingus is absolutely the most vital part of your lovemaking process if indeed your end goal is to bring your partner to a great climax.
So if you are not doing the "groundwork down town" before sex, then you should be! I guarantee that if you commence this pleasurable for both of you activity, your actions will be well rewarded in bed and also out of it! So if you are new to this, or if you already perform oral sex on your partner but can't get your them over the line so to speak, you might well ask, how do I go about it properly? Great question! Basically, there are many techniques but as said above, there is no one magic technique to get the job done as every woman is different.
There is the of course the location of your attention.
Some women love tongue stimulation all over their whole vagina and clitoris while others like it mainly around the clitoris.
Some women love the addition of a finger or two in combination with some great tongue work while others are just way too sensitive for anything but the tongue.
What most women seem to have in common is the speed requirements.
You will have great results in slowly and carefully rolling and moving your tongue all around, a gentle suck on the clitoris here and there and then slowly but surely increasing the speed of your tongue movements in line with your partners increased arousal and closeness to orgasm.
Once your partner starts getting close to climax, this is the time to focus your attention almost solely on the clitoris and in quick time too, with the speed of your movements in line with your partners' closeness to orgasm.
So Jaxon, sounds great but how exactly do I get my partner to this point and what was the magic technique you were talking about? Well here it is! The absolute, most vital, critical point to remember in going down on a woman or indeed pleasuring women in bed on any scale is really quite simple - AWARENESS.
Yep, that's all.
As lovemaking is not a pure science and everyone is different, the big secret is being aware of your partner and never is this more important than during the most intimate act between a man and a women - going down on her.
Every single breath, be it shallow, deep or somewhere in between is a sign on how you are going and how much satisfaction you are providing with that tongue of yours.
Every single movement, no matter how pronounced or subtle, arched back or just a gentle push towards your tongue, perhaps even a slight draw away.
Again, these are all signs of how you are making your lady feel.
They are not as obvious as the loud moans, sheets scrunched up in her tightly clenched hands and scratches down your back but it is in reading these signs and having great awareness on how your partner is feeling which brings her closer and closer to that body shuddering orgasm.
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