Do you know how to play hard to get? Do you wonder if you are too easy and that's why you don't keep guys? Is playing hard to get an effective way of getting guys? Are there ways to play hard to get? If you want answers to these questions, read on.
Playing hard to get is risky for some women.
They think if they play hard to get guys won't call them back or stick around.
Actually the opposite is true.
Guys like a challenge and nothing spells challenge like a woman who plays hard to get.
1) When the guy asks you on a date, don't rush the answer.
Tell him you need to check your calendar or you think you may have a conflict and you will get back to him.
Make him wait 24 hours and then call him to confirm the date.
2) When he calls don't always answer the phone.
When he leaves a message wait a day or two before you return his call.
Don't immediately respond to text messages and emails.
In fact, consider responding to every 2 messages.
3) Go ahead and flirt with other guys.
OK, flirt with the guy you have an interest in, but make sure you keep him on his toes by flirting, openly, with other guys.
4) When your guy gets a little to demanding of your time, it's time to become a free spirited young lady.
Put a little distance between the two of you; not so much that he doesn't think you like him anymore, but just enough to make him wonder what you are doing in your free time.
6 ) Invite him over to watch the big game, him and about 20 other people If you want to play hard to get, limit the amount of alone time you have with him.
7) Limit your availability.
If you want to get him thinking about what you are doing, become the elusive girlfriend.
Don't always answer his calls, be "busy" on occasion, and make plans with other friends for weekend getaways.
8) When you are unavailable for a date, don't give him too much information.
If you want to play hard to get, provide as little information as possible.
You don't need to lie, just don't tell him everything.
Remember the saying, what you don't know won't hurt you? 9) If you really want to get him going, send him a mixed message.
Tell one friend you a very interested in him and would like to see him more, but tell another friend you are just out for a good time and aren't looking for anything long term.
The poor guy won't know what to think and will come chasing after you just to get a straight answer.
Playing hard to get is an effective tool for getting your guy.
Guys can't resist a challenge and there is no greater challenge than a girl who is difficult to catch.