Is it really important that you sound confidence when you're talking to a guy on the phone? Did you know that even the sound of your voice and the way you talk speaks volumes about how you handle yourself? How do you keep yourself from sounding too nervous when you're talking on the phone? Many women find it difficult to talk to the guys they like over the phone for some reason.
If you want to sound confidence over the phone, the first thing that you need to understand is that being nervous will not get you anywhere.
Get a grip Being aware of how much you like a guy and how badly you want to sound confidence to make a great first impression is more than enough pressure to bring on an attack of the nerves.
First of all, being nervous will do more harm than good to your love life.
It will make you more cautious about what you say and be more uptight.
When you're nervous, you tend to hold back so that you miss out on the fun of actually talking on the phone.
You have a greater tendency to say the wrong things.
Here you are worrying about how you would say the wrong stuff to the guy on the other line and a few minutes into the conversation, you actually hear yourself say the wrong stuff.
It's more than enough for you to want to crawl under a rock and stay there until the next decade.
How to deal First of all, think of just how much this guy must like you and that he's probably just as interested in you because he actually called you.
Men wouldn't call without a reason.
Be confident in the knowledge that yes, he likes you, too, and that's why he took the time to call.
But if you still feel unconfident, you can try talking to a guy who you know really likes you.
Call him up for a short chat before you talk to the guy that YOU like.
This will make you feel more at ease.
And to thank the poor guy for helping you sound confidence, set him up with one of your great girlfriends.