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Husband Doesn"t Want Sex - What Can You Do About It?

If your husband doesn't want to have sex anymore, you've stumbled upon the right article.
Any woman whose husband doesn't want to have sex with her (or just doesn't want it often enough) feels confused, frustrated, hurt, and scared that her marriage is falling apart.
And indeed, once we are rejected by our husband we cannot help but think a series of pretty awful thoughts:
  • Doesn't he love me anymore?
  • Is he having an affair with someone else?
  • Doesn't he find me attractive or sexy anymore?
  • Is he going to leave me?
I understand where these thoughts are coming from and how desperately you're looking for a solution to this problem.
What can you do about reversing this situation and make your husband to want to have more sex with you? The first thing you need to understand is that your marriage doesn't turn sexless out of the blue.
The fact that your marriage now lacks sex is but a symptom of deeper relationship and personal issues between you and your husband.
These issues, if left untended may indeed deepen and end in divorce.
I know this may be scary, and believe me, there's nothing I want less than to scare you into doing nothing, because you can and should do what it takes to get your relationship back on track.
One of the things which may have led to this situation in which your husband doesn't want to have sex with you is the possibility that you've fallen into an unhealthy routine.
Men love diversity, they are build that way biologically.
Of course, he's not going to get diversity in sexual partners as long as he's married to you, but that doesn't mean that your sex life and romantic life should be routine.
Try to make your romantic life and sex life a bit more interesting and diverse.
Don't worry, you won't need to do "porn star" style things.
There's a lot of things you can do to spice things up between the sheets that will not only stimulate your husband again, but will also make sex more pleasurable for you.
Try a new position, have sex to candle light, put on some new music, and basically have fun exploring things like you did when you first started out.
Adding some variety to your sex life will go alone way to getting your husband to want to have sex with you again, and to restore the happiness to your relationship.
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