Are you feeling a little too lonely? Don't.
Because somewhere, there's a person just like you, hankering for love and attention.
Now, in just five steps, you can make loneliness history, and fulfilling dating your future.
Step 1: Get the dating mindset Frankly, Step 1 may seem pointless to you and it's the step you're most likely to skip.
Do that and you'll always share a single bed my friend.
Anyway, Step 1 to getting a date is erecting your, "I'm exciting AND available antenna".
You just can't be exciting and you just can't be available, you must be both for this operation to work.
Why? Because you need to communicate both pieces of data if you want to attract a date, not one or the other.
Step 2: Perform your "Getting ready for sex hygiene routine" Don't you feel better about yourself after a nice clean shave, or a hot shower? Of course you do because all that is, is a psychological prelude to sex.
In some societies, you could take all day to get ready for sex by primping yourself.
However, you don't have to go there.
Just imagine that you are preparing your body to delight in profound, soul-lifting sex while your perform your daily hygiene routine.
As you shave, wax, pluck, steam, tone, shampoo, condition and fragrance every square inch of your body, aggrandize the experience.
Transform this into your exclusive pre-sex ritual.
Don't you feel sexier and more attractive already? Step 3: Get the "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look going Now that you are in the "ready for sex" state of mind, you have to get the, "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look going.
The key to the "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look is dressing yourself as if you were about to go on a date.
That is, clean and iron your clothes and wear shined boots or heels.
Briefly, put your outfit together as you would put together anything you wanted to present to another person.
If this seems daunting, go to a small boutique like Bennington, Cache or Express and tell the clothier that your need an outfit.
They will help you.
Step 4: Circulate yourself in date responsive places Once you have the mindset, mood and image for dating congealed, now all you have to do is plop yourself in locations most conducive to dating.
List at least 10 places in your area, where you would actually go to, where you know for a fact that single people frequent.
If you are clueless, here's a good place to start.
Get your community reader, or local newspaper, and turn to the "Upcoming Events" section.
There's typically twenty categories of events ranging from music shows, to art galas, to even financial seminars.
Pick at least six events to attend.
Step 5: Get chatty, then listen When you show up to these events with your: "I'm exciting AND available antenna" mindset, after having performed your "Getting ready for sex hygiene routine" and sporting your "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look...
Introduce yourself to the "strangers" you might want to date.
Don't think about "what to say" or "how to say it", just let your "I'm exciting AND available antenna" takeover and most importantly: Let the other person do the talking.
It takes all the pressure off you and makes getting what you want, a date, easier.
Nothing is more attractive, or as rare, as a great listener.
I use this method all the time and get people I've just met to essentially tell me their life story in a matter of minutes.
This listening time gives you a covert way to interview your potential date.
After listening, if you do want to have a date with this person, here's how you close the deal.
You say, in your own words, "Wow, that sounds amazing, I'd like to continue this conversation over coffee.
How does Tuesday sound?" That's it folks.
You prepare yourself, prospect, interview candidates and then close the deal.
And within seven days, you have a hot date.
Because somewhere, there's a person just like you, hankering for love and attention.
Now, in just five steps, you can make loneliness history, and fulfilling dating your future.
Step 1: Get the dating mindset Frankly, Step 1 may seem pointless to you and it's the step you're most likely to skip.
Do that and you'll always share a single bed my friend.
Anyway, Step 1 to getting a date is erecting your, "I'm exciting AND available antenna".
You just can't be exciting and you just can't be available, you must be both for this operation to work.
Why? Because you need to communicate both pieces of data if you want to attract a date, not one or the other.
Step 2: Perform your "Getting ready for sex hygiene routine" Don't you feel better about yourself after a nice clean shave, or a hot shower? Of course you do because all that is, is a psychological prelude to sex.
In some societies, you could take all day to get ready for sex by primping yourself.
However, you don't have to go there.
Just imagine that you are preparing your body to delight in profound, soul-lifting sex while your perform your daily hygiene routine.
As you shave, wax, pluck, steam, tone, shampoo, condition and fragrance every square inch of your body, aggrandize the experience.
Transform this into your exclusive pre-sex ritual.
Don't you feel sexier and more attractive already? Step 3: Get the "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look going Now that you are in the "ready for sex" state of mind, you have to get the, "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look going.
The key to the "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look is dressing yourself as if you were about to go on a date.
That is, clean and iron your clothes and wear shined boots or heels.
Briefly, put your outfit together as you would put together anything you wanted to present to another person.
If this seems daunting, go to a small boutique like Bennington, Cache or Express and tell the clothier that your need an outfit.
They will help you.
Step 4: Circulate yourself in date responsive places Once you have the mindset, mood and image for dating congealed, now all you have to do is plop yourself in locations most conducive to dating.
List at least 10 places in your area, where you would actually go to, where you know for a fact that single people frequent.
If you are clueless, here's a good place to start.
Get your community reader, or local newspaper, and turn to the "Upcoming Events" section.
There's typically twenty categories of events ranging from music shows, to art galas, to even financial seminars.
Pick at least six events to attend.
Step 5: Get chatty, then listen When you show up to these events with your: "I'm exciting AND available antenna" mindset, after having performed your "Getting ready for sex hygiene routine" and sporting your "Hey, I'm pleasing to the eye" look...
Introduce yourself to the "strangers" you might want to date.
Don't think about "what to say" or "how to say it", just let your "I'm exciting AND available antenna" takeover and most importantly: Let the other person do the talking.
It takes all the pressure off you and makes getting what you want, a date, easier.
Nothing is more attractive, or as rare, as a great listener.
I use this method all the time and get people I've just met to essentially tell me their life story in a matter of minutes.
This listening time gives you a covert way to interview your potential date.
After listening, if you do want to have a date with this person, here's how you close the deal.
You say, in your own words, "Wow, that sounds amazing, I'd like to continue this conversation over coffee.
How does Tuesday sound?" That's it folks.
You prepare yourself, prospect, interview candidates and then close the deal.
And within seven days, you have a hot date.
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