When doing some research about typical tricks and techniques females do to get the attention of a guy they like, I was surprised at some of the dumb things people suggested.
One woman on a forum actually advocated literally falling for a man, that is, falling down right in front of him.
Another said that the only way that she could get a man to take her home was to get so drunk that he'd have no other choice.
Ladies, you can maintain your dignity and get guys to notice you.
Being male myself and a training relationship advisor, I've found these methods work effortlessly.
1.
At the bar: shout him a drink.
This technique can be surprisingly effective.
It's a pity that not many females realize that guys like alcohol.
While you're both waiting for a drink, have a chat and ask him who he's here with tonight.
It'll help you establish whether he's worth going for or not and also how much he likes to drink.
In a different scenario, this is useful for a female who already knows a guy and just wants to get to know him more.
It's not just an icebreaker.
For experienced people.
2.
Findout what he does and do it! This is common sense again.
If you're targeting the strong silent type who likes to read "Pride and Prejudice" kinds of books, find out where he often likes to chill and go there and read novels by Jane Austen.
If he likes working out at the gym, go check him out while you're doing your aerobics and cardio.
If he likes paintballing...
well, you get the picture.
Ideally, it should be something that you like and are good at.
Remember, this is about maintaining YOUR dignity.
3.
Dress appropriately This is probably the most contentious point.
No matter how much a man or woman says that they don't judge someone on their appearance, it is IMPOSSIBLE to not judge someone to some extent.
It's in human nature.
When I tell you to dress appropriately, I don't mean go and wear tight denim shorts and a plunging v-neck (though you can if you want), it's about being you and just improving yourself.
Because face it; a guy who sees you wearing baggy clothes that is unflattering to your figure will take it that you're uninterested in finding a guy at the moment.
However, a guy who sees a girl wearing a pleasant blouse or a hinting dress will take the hint and be more attracted.
After a lot of research, I have realized that it is much harder for women to get the attention of men than vice versa.
Men just have to look goofy and if they make the woman laugh, they're in.
Ladies, start at this article and continue looking for more advice.
Believe it or not, us guys are looking for girls like you constantly, you just have to make yourselves seen.
One woman on a forum actually advocated literally falling for a man, that is, falling down right in front of him.
Another said that the only way that she could get a man to take her home was to get so drunk that he'd have no other choice.
Ladies, you can maintain your dignity and get guys to notice you.
Being male myself and a training relationship advisor, I've found these methods work effortlessly.
1.
At the bar: shout him a drink.
This technique can be surprisingly effective.
It's a pity that not many females realize that guys like alcohol.
While you're both waiting for a drink, have a chat and ask him who he's here with tonight.
It'll help you establish whether he's worth going for or not and also how much he likes to drink.
In a different scenario, this is useful for a female who already knows a guy and just wants to get to know him more.
It's not just an icebreaker.
For experienced people.
2.
Findout what he does and do it! This is common sense again.
If you're targeting the strong silent type who likes to read "Pride and Prejudice" kinds of books, find out where he often likes to chill and go there and read novels by Jane Austen.
If he likes working out at the gym, go check him out while you're doing your aerobics and cardio.
If he likes paintballing...
well, you get the picture.
Ideally, it should be something that you like and are good at.
Remember, this is about maintaining YOUR dignity.
3.
Dress appropriately This is probably the most contentious point.
No matter how much a man or woman says that they don't judge someone on their appearance, it is IMPOSSIBLE to not judge someone to some extent.
It's in human nature.
When I tell you to dress appropriately, I don't mean go and wear tight denim shorts and a plunging v-neck (though you can if you want), it's about being you and just improving yourself.
Because face it; a guy who sees you wearing baggy clothes that is unflattering to your figure will take it that you're uninterested in finding a guy at the moment.
However, a guy who sees a girl wearing a pleasant blouse or a hinting dress will take the hint and be more attracted.
After a lot of research, I have realized that it is much harder for women to get the attention of men than vice versa.
Men just have to look goofy and if they make the woman laugh, they're in.
Ladies, start at this article and continue looking for more advice.
Believe it or not, us guys are looking for girls like you constantly, you just have to make yourselves seen.
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