Who is to be blamed? Every day we are facing situations where not everything is perfect.
We always have an opportunity to react to what is happening.
Usually we are very quick to blame things on people without knowing any facts at all.
The other situation is when you blame yourself for some stupidness that should not have happened.
You blame and put shame on yourself.
Who learned the lesson? Next time you blame somebody or yourself, stop for a moment and look for the lesson learned.
The blame itself will do absolutely no good at all and if you do it to yourself it will slowly eat you alive if you do not know how to see the bigger lesson hidden in the message.
We all do mistakes.
The reason for our mistakes is that we are missing some information, knowledge or skills that now have been made obvious to us and others.
Thomas Edison made about 5000 mistakes before the final light bulb was ready.
He would never have made it if he had blamed himself for being stupid.
Deliver you message in an enlightened way There are many ways of telling somebody something.
* How stupid can you be to leave your kids alone at the playground? or * Let us find somebody, helping you with the kids when you do the shopping.
All truly successful people in this world have one thing in common, they do not see their failures and mistakes as something negative.
They learn the lesson and use the new knowledge to go on and be even more successful than before.
You have a choice It is your decision to, * either blame yourself and others and be absorbed by the negative energy that will eat you from inside out * or accept and be thankful for the lesson learned and use it for your future success.
We always have an opportunity to react to what is happening.
Usually we are very quick to blame things on people without knowing any facts at all.
The other situation is when you blame yourself for some stupidness that should not have happened.
You blame and put shame on yourself.
Who learned the lesson? Next time you blame somebody or yourself, stop for a moment and look for the lesson learned.
The blame itself will do absolutely no good at all and if you do it to yourself it will slowly eat you alive if you do not know how to see the bigger lesson hidden in the message.
We all do mistakes.
The reason for our mistakes is that we are missing some information, knowledge or skills that now have been made obvious to us and others.
Thomas Edison made about 5000 mistakes before the final light bulb was ready.
He would never have made it if he had blamed himself for being stupid.
Deliver you message in an enlightened way There are many ways of telling somebody something.
* How stupid can you be to leave your kids alone at the playground? or * Let us find somebody, helping you with the kids when you do the shopping.
All truly successful people in this world have one thing in common, they do not see their failures and mistakes as something negative.
They learn the lesson and use the new knowledge to go on and be even more successful than before.
You have a choice It is your decision to, * either blame yourself and others and be absorbed by the negative energy that will eat you from inside out * or accept and be thankful for the lesson learned and use it for your future success.
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