It is inevitably going to happen to you when you are out looking for women. Initiating a conversation with a girl is usually a guys goal when out partying. Then, you see the girls you want to approach. They are in a group and one girl stands out in particular to you. You have gotten the courage to talk to the girls. Something doesn't seem right though. All her friends are very approachable but the woman you were focusing on isn't giving you much action to work with.

Don't fret. It's not that she isn't into you or that you aren't her type. It is because you have subconsciously and probably unintentionally boosted her ego and feeling of self-worth.

She got the feeling of importance and now the ball is in her court. She doesn't want to lose her value her friends see her in so she doesn't respond as some girl who's easy as pie. She'd rather keep her value with her friends than show her interest in you. What is the solution to this? Change your approach! It is important to note that this tip comes from Tiffany Taylor's Guy Gets Girl ebook.

This is when you take that interest and attention from the woman you are interested in and focus that energy onto one or more of her girlfriends. This is going to stir up some competition in girls especially in the one you are really interested in.She is going to want you more now and is going to try to have what she no longer is sure she can have, You! She is going to try to now get your interest back, which is what you'll gladly take. See how the guy gets the girl with this?

This technique allows you to challenge a girl. Use this technique to increase your chances of being successful in the dating scene and to get the girl.