Who does not want to have a lasting relationship? A lasting one is the most difficult to achieve because it is not easy to find Mr.
Right.
When you finally have him in front of you and you are about to start on the new relationship, you tend to do things which you are not supposed to do so.
What you have in mind is Mr.
Perfect and there is nobody who is perfect.
Stop yourself from getting hung up on little things or set your standards high, the one in front of you might be the best one, you just don't know yet.
Starting a relationship is really not easy but you have to do your best to make it work.
It requires both of you to exert effort but the only thing you can control is yourself.
It is important that every detail counts and how you act around your new boyfriend matters too.
In as much as you want everything to work perfectly beginning from the start of your relationship, you can't avoid the awkward moment.
So how do you do you do it when you are around him? First be a friend.
Before you felt something romantic towards the guy, you started as friends for sure.
It doesn't matter what level of friendship you have, just be that someone he enjoyed hanging out with before you started your relationship.
That is why courtship is important.
To let you have a chance to get to know each other and establish friendship.
Being a friend, you can be open.
Talk about anything about you, your work or your interest.
In return, you listen when he talks and you respond.
You will know how to act around your new boyfriend if you just remain natural.
Genuinely liking the person will allow you to open up the true you and will make you relax in his presence.
Being his friend will make you enjoy simple talk and honest laughter which will form a trust and the feeling of being comfortable when you are together.
Make him your best friend.
Don't mistake your friendship with him as a bond that glues you to him though.
Guys want their friends to see their girlfriends love them and crazy about them but not all over them.
Suffocating your new guy with your presence and being clingy is not a good thing.
You need to give your new guy space for himself to enjoy with his friends the same way you enjoy your other friends' company.
Showing him that you are an independent lady will in fact make him admire you more.
Having a life outside your relationship is really healthy and that will definitely strengthen your trust in each other.
When you are with him, make sure you make him feel good.
Men naturally love it if you boost their ego and making him think that he is the best boyfriend a girl could ever have will surely make you earn his love and trust.
Just appreciate simple things he does or tell him how safe you feel when you are around him.
Make him feel that you are comfortable to be with him even if there are a lot of people around you.
Treat him as special as he is when only the two of you are together as much as you are with friends.
Consider playing a video game with him once in a while, instead of planning ways to get rid of your boyfriend's xbox.
Kissing him and cuddling will make him extra good too.
Right.
When you finally have him in front of you and you are about to start on the new relationship, you tend to do things which you are not supposed to do so.
What you have in mind is Mr.
Perfect and there is nobody who is perfect.
Stop yourself from getting hung up on little things or set your standards high, the one in front of you might be the best one, you just don't know yet.
Starting a relationship is really not easy but you have to do your best to make it work.
It requires both of you to exert effort but the only thing you can control is yourself.
It is important that every detail counts and how you act around your new boyfriend matters too.
In as much as you want everything to work perfectly beginning from the start of your relationship, you can't avoid the awkward moment.
So how do you do you do it when you are around him? First be a friend.
Before you felt something romantic towards the guy, you started as friends for sure.
It doesn't matter what level of friendship you have, just be that someone he enjoyed hanging out with before you started your relationship.
That is why courtship is important.
To let you have a chance to get to know each other and establish friendship.
Being a friend, you can be open.
Talk about anything about you, your work or your interest.
In return, you listen when he talks and you respond.
You will know how to act around your new boyfriend if you just remain natural.
Genuinely liking the person will allow you to open up the true you and will make you relax in his presence.
Being his friend will make you enjoy simple talk and honest laughter which will form a trust and the feeling of being comfortable when you are together.
Make him your best friend.
Don't mistake your friendship with him as a bond that glues you to him though.
Guys want their friends to see their girlfriends love them and crazy about them but not all over them.
Suffocating your new guy with your presence and being clingy is not a good thing.
You need to give your new guy space for himself to enjoy with his friends the same way you enjoy your other friends' company.
Showing him that you are an independent lady will in fact make him admire you more.
Having a life outside your relationship is really healthy and that will definitely strengthen your trust in each other.
When you are with him, make sure you make him feel good.
Men naturally love it if you boost their ego and making him think that he is the best boyfriend a girl could ever have will surely make you earn his love and trust.
Just appreciate simple things he does or tell him how safe you feel when you are around him.
Make him feel that you are comfortable to be with him even if there are a lot of people around you.
Treat him as special as he is when only the two of you are together as much as you are with friends.
Consider playing a video game with him once in a while, instead of planning ways to get rid of your boyfriend's xbox.
Kissing him and cuddling will make him extra good too.
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