One of the hardest concepts to get through to any man that wants to be more successful with women, is WHY you should position yourself as being UN-available to her. Most guys will say, "hey, I want to date her, so I should let her know that I am available." Well, intuitively, that might seem like the right thing to do. However, most of what causes or creates female attraction is going to be counter intuitive, so you have to keep that in mind.
One of the main reasons why you want to be unavailable to a woman, if you want to attract her, is to take advantage of the power that comes along with seeming like she cannot have you. All people, both men and women tend to be drawn towards things that are "out of their reach." Why do we lust after supermodels sooo much?
Because we know deep down inside, that we will most likely NEVER get the chance to date one.
Well, that exact same urge, that same attraction, you can create with a woman by making yourself seem unavailable to HER.
Here's a brief story that I would like to share with you:
Several years ago, when I first started out with the journey of discovering what creates attraction in a woman, I came across a guy that gave me the suggestion to let a woman know that I was COMPLETELY unavailable to her. At first, I thought he was a little off by saying this, but hey, who was I to really know back then, anyways?
So, one night, I was talking to a woman in a club that was definitely way out of my league. I knew that my usually ways of trying to make her feel attracted to me were just NOT going to work. So, I decided to take that suggestion and make myself seem unavailable to her.
I told her I was single, when the question popped up, but I let her know that at that point, I was not even interested in having a relationship of any kind. Well, she wanted to know why, because that was not the answer that she was used to.
I continued on to tell her that for me, at that point, a girlfriend would just be a hassle that I did not want. Well, within minutes, she was basically qualifying herself and telling me that she would not be a hassle to me if we were dating. I just shrugged it off and kept on with the whole positioning myself as being unavailable.
And she kept on qualifying HERSELF as being the right kind of woman for ME.
To say that this was not a welcomed switch would be an understatement to say the least. Anyways, I went home with her that night, and from that moment on, I was sold on the idea of being able to attract a woman...by making yourself seem unavailable to HER.
WHEN YOU MAKE YOURSELF UNAVAILABLE TO HER, SHE WILL BEGIN TO QUALIFY HERSELF...
And this is the real power of knowing how to attract a woman. You don't want to be the kind of guy that is constantly trying to prove to her why she should date you. That kind of approach will almost always be met with rejection, and even if she does end up dating you, she will always know that SHE has the upper hand in the relationship.
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One of the main reasons why you want to be unavailable to a woman, if you want to attract her, is to take advantage of the power that comes along with seeming like she cannot have you. All people, both men and women tend to be drawn towards things that are "out of their reach." Why do we lust after supermodels sooo much?
Because we know deep down inside, that we will most likely NEVER get the chance to date one.
Well, that exact same urge, that same attraction, you can create with a woman by making yourself seem unavailable to HER.
Here's a brief story that I would like to share with you:
Several years ago, when I first started out with the journey of discovering what creates attraction in a woman, I came across a guy that gave me the suggestion to let a woman know that I was COMPLETELY unavailable to her. At first, I thought he was a little off by saying this, but hey, who was I to really know back then, anyways?
So, one night, I was talking to a woman in a club that was definitely way out of my league. I knew that my usually ways of trying to make her feel attracted to me were just NOT going to work. So, I decided to take that suggestion and make myself seem unavailable to her.
I told her I was single, when the question popped up, but I let her know that at that point, I was not even interested in having a relationship of any kind. Well, she wanted to know why, because that was not the answer that she was used to.
I continued on to tell her that for me, at that point, a girlfriend would just be a hassle that I did not want. Well, within minutes, she was basically qualifying herself and telling me that she would not be a hassle to me if we were dating. I just shrugged it off and kept on with the whole positioning myself as being unavailable.
And she kept on qualifying HERSELF as being the right kind of woman for ME.
To say that this was not a welcomed switch would be an understatement to say the least. Anyways, I went home with her that night, and from that moment on, I was sold on the idea of being able to attract a woman...by making yourself seem unavailable to HER.
WHEN YOU MAKE YOURSELF UNAVAILABLE TO HER, SHE WILL BEGIN TO QUALIFY HERSELF...
And this is the real power of knowing how to attract a woman. You don't want to be the kind of guy that is constantly trying to prove to her why she should date you. That kind of approach will almost always be met with rejection, and even if she does end up dating you, she will always know that SHE has the upper hand in the relationship.
Want to get more advanced techniques and tips on how to attract a woman that MOST MEN WILL NEVER KNOW?
Click Hereto Get Your FREE Report on How to Attract, Approach, and Seduce Any Woman You Want...
Copyright © 2010 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.
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