What about that guy you just met; is he a player? Are you tired of getting mixed up with the guys that just want to have fun? Are you ready to find the man that wants a serious relationship just like you do? You're looking for a keeper, and here is how to tell if yours is a player or a keeper.
Do his words and his actions coincide with each other? For example, when he says that he misses you, does he try to find ways to see you? When he says that you are the only girl for him, do you find him constantly flirting with every girl that crosses his path? These are examples of inconsistencies between a man's statements and his actions.
If they continually conflict, chances are that your guy is a player.
Does he answer the phone when you call? If he picks up most of the time, then he is not hiding anything or trying to hide you from someone else.
Hearing his voicemail all the time is not a good sign.
He is screening because it would be inconvenient to take a phone call from you at that moment.
If he is a keeper and he really cares about you, you will be able to get through to him live most of the time.
Finally, does he carry through with his promises? It is very easy for people to reassure someone else that they will do something, but it is much more difficult to actually make it happen.
A player is famous for making empty pledges.
He will say anything to keep you happy or to get what he wants, even though he has no intention of keeping his word.
This guy is definitely a player and is one man that should be avoided at all costs if you want to protect your heart.
Watch for these signs if you are concerned about your guy's intentions; they are excellent indicators of what his motives are.