I suspect that my spouse is seeing someone else; I think she's cuter than I am.
I don't know what to do but I really want to change this; I want my marriage to bounce back to life.
What should I do? Hmm! What you need to do is quite easy but it is going to take a lot of your energy on your side.
First of all, the reason why you think your spouse is seeing someone else is because you are beginning to lose confidence in yourself.
You are beginning to look down on yourself.
Don't do this it is a marriage destroyer.
On the other hand, your spouse is also losing interest in you.
Maybe he has lost or forgotten his first love or she has not being getting enough from you as she thought she would have.
So like I told you it's going to be work on your side.
You will have to get closer as close as you can get close to your spouse.
Act as though you and your spouse are one because you both really are.
Stop that unaccommodating attitude that you have developed; this can disrupt the marriage rejuvenating process.
Begin to like those things that your spouse likes; begin to get interested in the things that your spouse gets interested in.
always find yourself pleasing your spouse but don't allow your spouse separate you from the things of God.
Again, understand that marriage is an organization.
Many say it is the smallest organization but the truth is that it is the biggest.
It is also an organization that institutes two stakeholders (you and your spouse).
In such an organization, the two stakeholders will have to be happy with each other for the organization to carry on successfully.
In summary, you on your own side; begin to get closer to your spouse do things that he will never forget no matter the pressure he goes through; speak words to her that even when another man comes in contact with her she will act based on what you said to her.
You know what I mean; say nice, kind words.
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B: Words are spirits; they are stronger than even the biggest material things.
So don't joke with them.
Thanks for reading!