Learning how to get your ex back after breaking up can be a daunting task.
This stuff is not taught to us in school nor is it part of our natural instincts.
Sure we want to get them back and may make a try at it but do we go about it the correct way? Consider the tips listed here and see if they help.
Many people will chase after their ex trying to talk them into getting back together with them.
This is counter productive and makes your situation worse.
Think about if your ex was chasing after you and you had no interest in discussing things now.
You would be getting upset and trying to avoid them.
Give your ex some time to themselves so they can get over having broken up and they can get their thoughts together again.
In fact you need to do the same, take some time to get over this so you are thinking clearly.
You can throw your ex off track by stating that you agree with the break up and are okay with it.
It may be difficult for you to do but has the benefit of making you look in control of your decision making and you can take care of yourself.
Later when you do make your attempt to get them back you should have an easier time talking to them because the break up was some what peaceful.
And of course you need to get out of the house and enjoy yourself.
If you sit home thinking about your ex and about what went wrong you will never get over it.
Take your mind of it by spending time with your friends and having fun.
This will help you heal faster so you can get your life back on track.