Over the last few years, there has been a lot of dating advice given to men that emphasizes that you need to come off as being really, really confident.
And that can be a good thing.
The problem is, most guys that try to be really, really confident...
end up coming off cocky more than anything else.
And most women don't like cocky guys.
They don't want to meet a guy who comes across as being arrogant.
There is a big difference in the results that you get with women when you are confident versus when you are being cocky.
Yet, the difference between seeming confident and seeming cocky can actually be pretty small.
Having an attitude that you know your are attractive to women is a little different than having an attitude like women should be glad just to spend a few moments in your presence.
See that little difference there? Here's why women don't like cocky guys: 1.
They make her feel inferior to them.
While a man is supposed to be a leader, an alpha male, he's not supposed to make a woman feel inferior to him.
Do that and you will turn off 90 percent of the women you come across and at best you will have the 10 percent left that have crazy issues going on.
There's no reason to try and make a woman feel inferior, and doing that just proves one thing-- that you probably have some security issues going on in your head.
2.
Women like to socialize and most people don't want to be around an arrogant person.
Most women enjoy socializing, whether it is in a bog group of people or just their regular group of friends.
And they like to be dating a guy that they can 'show off' or at least bring around their friends and have a good time.
But, most people don't really want to socialize with arrogant people, so you will end up turning off her friends, which can end up making her have second thoughts about you.
3.
Cocky guys are no fun be with.
The internet seduction community, namely David DeAngelo, gave rise to the idea that combining a little bit of cockiness with humor works well when interacting with women.
And it does.
Of course, some guys have known that for years, but he really brought that out and coined the term.
Problem is, it is the combination of cocky *and* funny that works.
Cocky by itself is no fun at all.
If you try and do the cocky and funny thing, but you lack the humor in it...
then you are not going to get a good reaction, because then you are no fun to be with.
And that can be a good thing.
The problem is, most guys that try to be really, really confident...
end up coming off cocky more than anything else.
And most women don't like cocky guys.
They don't want to meet a guy who comes across as being arrogant.
There is a big difference in the results that you get with women when you are confident versus when you are being cocky.
Yet, the difference between seeming confident and seeming cocky can actually be pretty small.
Having an attitude that you know your are attractive to women is a little different than having an attitude like women should be glad just to spend a few moments in your presence.
See that little difference there? Here's why women don't like cocky guys: 1.
They make her feel inferior to them.
While a man is supposed to be a leader, an alpha male, he's not supposed to make a woman feel inferior to him.
Do that and you will turn off 90 percent of the women you come across and at best you will have the 10 percent left that have crazy issues going on.
There's no reason to try and make a woman feel inferior, and doing that just proves one thing-- that you probably have some security issues going on in your head.
2.
Women like to socialize and most people don't want to be around an arrogant person.
Most women enjoy socializing, whether it is in a bog group of people or just their regular group of friends.
And they like to be dating a guy that they can 'show off' or at least bring around their friends and have a good time.
But, most people don't really want to socialize with arrogant people, so you will end up turning off her friends, which can end up making her have second thoughts about you.
3.
Cocky guys are no fun be with.
The internet seduction community, namely David DeAngelo, gave rise to the idea that combining a little bit of cockiness with humor works well when interacting with women.
And it does.
Of course, some guys have known that for years, but he really brought that out and coined the term.
Problem is, it is the combination of cocky *and* funny that works.
Cocky by itself is no fun at all.
If you try and do the cocky and funny thing, but you lack the humor in it...
then you are not going to get a good reaction, because then you are no fun to be with.
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