Most people assume that when their husband or wife wants out of the marriage that it is over.
Many who are faced with this situation sadly give in and agree to a divorce and families are forever broken.
If your marriage seems hopeless and your spouse wants out, is there anything you can do? You may be wondering how to save your marriage by yourself.
Read on.
The hurt you are feeling right now is understandable and rest assured you are not alone.
It is very common for one partner to want a divorce or separation while the other is left shocked and confused.
I've been there in my own marriage and I will never forget the hours, days and weeks after my wife told me our marriage was over.
How could she do this after the life we had built together? I loved her so much and had never felt pain like this before! Her mind seemed made up and I had to do something.
Even though I knew that I couldn't legally stop her from going through with it, could I buy some time in the hopes of getting her to change her mind? I had already learned the hard way that begging and pleading, promises to change, constant phone calls to her at work; apologies etc were only making the problem worse.
These tactics seemed to convince her all the more that she was doing the right thing! I felt pathetic and desperate and knew that I was surrendering all the power to her.
So what did I finally end up doing? Here is what I learned almost by accident after doing all the wrong things at first.
Many who are faced with this situation sadly give in and agree to a divorce and families are forever broken.
If your marriage seems hopeless and your spouse wants out, is there anything you can do? You may be wondering how to save your marriage by yourself.
Read on.
The hurt you are feeling right now is understandable and rest assured you are not alone.
It is very common for one partner to want a divorce or separation while the other is left shocked and confused.
I've been there in my own marriage and I will never forget the hours, days and weeks after my wife told me our marriage was over.
How could she do this after the life we had built together? I loved her so much and had never felt pain like this before! Her mind seemed made up and I had to do something.
Even though I knew that I couldn't legally stop her from going through with it, could I buy some time in the hopes of getting her to change her mind? I had already learned the hard way that begging and pleading, promises to change, constant phone calls to her at work; apologies etc were only making the problem worse.
These tactics seemed to convince her all the more that she was doing the right thing! I felt pathetic and desperate and knew that I was surrendering all the power to her.
So what did I finally end up doing? Here is what I learned almost by accident after doing all the wrong things at first.
- DO NOT beg and plead, argue or pester your husband or wife with constant phone calls.
DO NOT cry and apologize and make promises to change.
These are desperation tactics that don't make you appear desirable to your spouse and surrender any power your might still have in this relationship! - Acknowledge that this problem will NOT go away on its own and that you MUST take quick and decisive action to save your marriage by yourself! There are certain things you can do and say and specific ways that you can act around your spouse that have been PROVEN over and over by thousands of other couples, EVEN WHEN ONLY ONE SPOUSE WANTED TO SAVE THE MARRIAGE!
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