Chances are, if you are a single guy who is hoping to be able to get better with women, then you don't want to focus on advice and tips that don't bring much in the way of results. You probably want to focus as much of your time and energy as possible on the things that are actually going to help you to get better with women. There are lots of tips and bits of advice that you can come across online, but not all of them are really worth paying attention to. You can easily put yourself on the WRONG track by following advice that just doesn't yield much in the way of actual results.
Here are some tips that actually do bring results if you follow them:
1. Become a student of the way that men and women socialize with one another.
You can pick up a lot of things just by becoming someone who observes men and women and how they interact. Lots of times, you can pick up on specific things that cause men to enter into the friend zone with a woman when you just sit back and observe a guy who obviously likes a woman interacting with her in such a way that she only thinks of him as just being a friend. The more you become an observer of the way that men and women socialize, the easier it is to figure out why some guys get the women that they want, while others just end up being seen as a friend or an acquaintance and nothing more than that.
2. Become a fan of failing with women.
Why would I suggest this? Because when you fail, you are forced to look back and figure out what went wrong and you can learn a lot from those mistakes. When you have an interaction that goes well, you usually just think about how well it went and you don't really think about what actually went on. Now, when you fail to get the results that you want, then you are a lot more likely to actually think about what mistakes that you might have made and that can help you to actually improve later on.
3. Become a man who doesn't fear women.
Most men will say that they don't fear women at all, but if you were to suggest that they go ahead and approach a really hot looking woman, you'd see that they actually do have a fear of the opposite sex. You don't want to have that fear, because it will keep you from really seeing just how good you can get with women. It will keep you from taking any risks and seeing if you can actually attract a really attractive woman. The less fear that you have when it comes to approaching good looking women, the more likely it is that you are going to end up with a pretty girlfriend.
Here are some tips that actually do bring results if you follow them:
1. Become a student of the way that men and women socialize with one another.
You can pick up a lot of things just by becoming someone who observes men and women and how they interact. Lots of times, you can pick up on specific things that cause men to enter into the friend zone with a woman when you just sit back and observe a guy who obviously likes a woman interacting with her in such a way that she only thinks of him as just being a friend. The more you become an observer of the way that men and women socialize, the easier it is to figure out why some guys get the women that they want, while others just end up being seen as a friend or an acquaintance and nothing more than that.
2. Become a fan of failing with women.
Why would I suggest this? Because when you fail, you are forced to look back and figure out what went wrong and you can learn a lot from those mistakes. When you have an interaction that goes well, you usually just think about how well it went and you don't really think about what actually went on. Now, when you fail to get the results that you want, then you are a lot more likely to actually think about what mistakes that you might have made and that can help you to actually improve later on.
3. Become a man who doesn't fear women.
Most men will say that they don't fear women at all, but if you were to suggest that they go ahead and approach a really hot looking woman, you'd see that they actually do have a fear of the opposite sex. You don't want to have that fear, because it will keep you from really seeing just how good you can get with women. It will keep you from taking any risks and seeing if you can actually attract a really attractive woman. The less fear that you have when it comes to approaching good looking women, the more likely it is that you are going to end up with a pretty girlfriend.
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