People nowadays think that once you're in a relationship you no longer need to worry about attracting her.
This is not just a poor belief of society, this is the dream of a single man.
This is not true because healthy women are sexual beings, and are happier with a satisfying sex life.
This means that you must always stay attractive to your hb/wife! A woman may think you are the sexiest being that ever walked the face of earth, but the day that you fail to spark attraction in her you are in trouble.
But the day that you fail to spark that attraction she will be unhappy.
The unhappiness will last until either you do spark the attraction or she finds another lover, that can make her feel attracted again.
This is where the relationship will end up in 7/10 marriages.
She starts acting moody, then withholds sex and finally leaves you for another man.
This happens 10/10 times with a guy who is insecure, who luckily attracts a female.
For a while he feels on top of the world but ends up on the bottom of it when she discovers his insecurity and leaves him for a more secure male.
And even the ladies men have a problem later in life.
This guy eventually becomes complacent with the woman of his life.
Then he no longer tries to keep her attracted.
She eventually leaves him for another man als, thinking to herself, " what happened to the man I married?" So here is the gameplan for you guys who are in relationships: 1) Believe in yourself, and that you can achieve attraction levels again.
Desire in the absence of belief is neediness.
If you have lost belief in yourself so will your wife or girlfriend.
There is nothing sadder than a man that nobody believes in.
2) Keep your emotions in check If she tries to flaunt her new attraction in front of you, hold it together.
Any emotional reaction will show that he is important enough to you that he makes you emotional.
Believe that you are a great man and that you don't need to compete with anyone.
Write down the beliefs that you want to have, and look at them everyday.
Become those beliefs, visualize them live them.
Remember confidence is what the unconscious mind rehearses.
Believe it or not you can learn this skill in 24hrs, this is what I teach at my blog.
This is not just a poor belief of society, this is the dream of a single man.
This is not true because healthy women are sexual beings, and are happier with a satisfying sex life.
This means that you must always stay attractive to your hb/wife! A woman may think you are the sexiest being that ever walked the face of earth, but the day that you fail to spark attraction in her you are in trouble.
But the day that you fail to spark that attraction she will be unhappy.
The unhappiness will last until either you do spark the attraction or she finds another lover, that can make her feel attracted again.
This is where the relationship will end up in 7/10 marriages.
She starts acting moody, then withholds sex and finally leaves you for another man.
This happens 10/10 times with a guy who is insecure, who luckily attracts a female.
For a while he feels on top of the world but ends up on the bottom of it when she discovers his insecurity and leaves him for a more secure male.
And even the ladies men have a problem later in life.
This guy eventually becomes complacent with the woman of his life.
Then he no longer tries to keep her attracted.
She eventually leaves him for another man als, thinking to herself, " what happened to the man I married?" So here is the gameplan for you guys who are in relationships: 1) Believe in yourself, and that you can achieve attraction levels again.
Desire in the absence of belief is neediness.
If you have lost belief in yourself so will your wife or girlfriend.
There is nothing sadder than a man that nobody believes in.
2) Keep your emotions in check If she tries to flaunt her new attraction in front of you, hold it together.
Any emotional reaction will show that he is important enough to you that he makes you emotional.
Believe that you are a great man and that you don't need to compete with anyone.
Write down the beliefs that you want to have, and look at them everyday.
Become those beliefs, visualize them live them.
Remember confidence is what the unconscious mind rehearses.
Believe it or not you can learn this skill in 24hrs, this is what I teach at my blog.
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