New relationships blossom so beautifully in the beginning.
Two individuals come together and nothing is more important than simply enjoying every moment together.
Over time relationships become more complex and move in many different directions.
There is a single psychological decision that can forever change the course of a relationship and save your marriage now.
With the complexities of relationships there is never a one size fits all response to conflict or to save your marriage.
There is a necessary shift through a single psychological decision that will enhance any ones chances for survival.
Recall the reasons for your marriage and what attracted you to your partner.
Set aside the petty differences with your partner and take a stand.
Decide for yourself and the sake of your marriage that you are committed to it for the long haul and that divorce is not an option.
Ideally this would be a commitment you would share with your partner.
Regardless of where they are right now you need to make the commitment to yourself and be willing to take the steps to move your relationship in the right direction.
Commit to yourself first and your partner will begin to see the shift in you.
Whether your partner is equally committed or not you should seek help from outside your relationship.
It may be difficult to objectively view and understand the complexities you have both created.
Isn't today the right time to begin to commit to your marriage.
The most valuable asset in life is your relationship with your partner.