All children go through toddler tantrums at one time or another; they fall to the floor while kicking and screaming because they're frustrated or can't have something their way! You may notice some toddlers experience these episodes more than others, and they usually grow out of them by the time they turn 3-4 years old.
To be able to curtail a toddler tantrum you must first have an idea about what causes it.
Toddlers are just learning about their existence and everything around them, and they're also learning to communicate during their 2nd year.
The most common reasons they occur are because they're hungry or tired, when they can't get what they want due to a parent's wishes, and when they can't communicate their needs verbally or otherwise.
When a toddler who is prone to having temper tantrums is tired, the chances of a repeated episode increase dramatically.
So, aside from the obvious health benefits, one obvious way to help your toddler avoid them is through adequate rest; at night and during daytime naps.
Try to make a sleep schedule and stick to it as much as possible! As parents, we all want to teach our children good values, and sometimes little Johnny can't have that ice cream cone that he desperately wants at 10:00 PM because you know he won't sleep well! So we deny them the pleasure even if it means having to endure them having an occasional "fit.
" We need to stick to our guns, but we also need to be careful we don't make the problem worse by reacting negatively to their misbehavior.
Kids crave and love attention, so don't let them see you place importance or dwell on their episodes; toddler tantrums can be held at bay if you make it appear as if the episodes don't bother you or other family members.
Be sure to place emphasis on their positive actions and praise them when they do behave well, and you'll be on your way to success!