Every kid in this world may go through that stage which we call toddler behavior problems before they finally grew up. And this are the times that Moms and Dads can experience a lot of stress and headaches which leads to a bad temper. But this are a part of parenting and parents should realize that they also went through this in their childhood and should hold their temper as much as they could. Beating kids won't help and it may even worsen the problem, in fact hurting them would turn them into a violent child because your showing them how to make someone obey through pain. There are so many ways to make them listen and do what you say, but it takes time because you're dealing with a real person's behavior.



It all goes down to studying your toddler's behavior problems and what works and what doesn't. Let's say for example your toddler likes to throw things, they're doing this to get your attention. And they know it works because every time they throw something you're always there to pick it up and even talk to them about it. But how about ignoring what they threw and only listen to them if they start to calm down and telling them that they got your attention because they behaved properly?



A lot of parents always give what they child wants just to stop their kids from screaming, hitting or throwing things and to avoid further tantrums. But what they don't realize is this would turn their child into a spoiled brat, even if those were just small things they should be controlled always. Their demand on things is the right time to show them discipline and teach them about patience and respect. Though as a parent, it hurts our feelings to see them cry, but it's our way of showing them that we care by raising them with good behavior.