- 1). Inform your children. They should be the first to know of your intention to marry again. Second marriages are often stressful on children due to the blending of two separate families. So, inform your children early so they can begin to get used to the idea of having a stepparent and step-siblings.
- 2). Consult your parents. While you are not officially asking for their blessing, as you might have done with your first marriage, it is still proper etiquette to inform them that they will soon have a new son or daughter-in-law.
- 3). Tell your ex-spouse. You ex should hear the news of your upcoming nuptials directly from you and not from another source. This is important and should be handled delicately especially if you both have joint custody over the children. Informing your ex early may spare hurt feelings and allow him to become an ally rather than an adversary as you begin your life with your new spouse.
- 4). Make a formal announcement. Once you have informed all of the pertinent people involved, a formal announcement can be made to the rest of your family and friends. Announcements can be made over the phone, via e-mail or by taking out an ad in your local newspaper. For a more personal touch, have a party and announce your intention to remarry there. Guests should not be expected to bring gifts, as this is not a shower. It is only intended to gather all of your loved ones in one place so that you can tell them all at the same time.
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