If your marriage was as seriously troubled as mine was, you don't have a lot of time to waste.
I kept hoping things would get better and probably ignored a lot of the warning signs.
Before I knew it my wife was asking for a divorce! I was eventually able to turn things around but not without learning some very important information about how to repair a bad marriage.
It's powerful action with a step-by-step plan.
The Internet is full of really bad advice about marriage and relationships.
When I was having problems in my own marriage I turned to the Internet as a source of information.
Me and my wife had already tried counseling and hadn't had any success with it.
Facing the end of my marriage, frustrated and desperate for answers, I began scouring the Internet looking for anything that might provide a solution to my problem.
I found all kinds of information from so-called "experts" who all claimed to know about marriage and relationships.
Most of it was all the same tired clichés about better communication, spending more time with each other, showing more affection etc.
It was garbage anybody could have come up with and didn't offer any real help.
I didn't want useless clichés, I wanted a solution to my problem! My wife had told me our marriage was over and said she wanted a divorce.
I needed a plan; something that had worked for others and could work for me too! I had been desperately reaching out to my wife, trying to get her to change her mind and give our marriage one more chance.
I made promises to change, I sent her flowers at work, I told her how much I loved her, I called her and emailed her constantly, and everything else I could think of.
She acted very cold and seemed all the more determined to end our marriage! Why were my sincerest efforts backfiring? If you want know how to repair a bad marriage, this is where you will have to start: 1.
Stop making the dangerous mistakes that will hurt your chance to save your marriage, and learn what you should be doing instead 2.
Get out of your negative emotional state and put yourself in a calm, confident and resourceful state 3.
Become 100% committed to taking specific action, even if it seems counter-intuitive.
There are things you can say and do which will change the dynamics of your relationship with your spouse, regardless of how he or she is feeling right now.
I kept hoping things would get better and probably ignored a lot of the warning signs.
Before I knew it my wife was asking for a divorce! I was eventually able to turn things around but not without learning some very important information about how to repair a bad marriage.
It's powerful action with a step-by-step plan.
The Internet is full of really bad advice about marriage and relationships.
When I was having problems in my own marriage I turned to the Internet as a source of information.
Me and my wife had already tried counseling and hadn't had any success with it.
Facing the end of my marriage, frustrated and desperate for answers, I began scouring the Internet looking for anything that might provide a solution to my problem.
I found all kinds of information from so-called "experts" who all claimed to know about marriage and relationships.
Most of it was all the same tired clichés about better communication, spending more time with each other, showing more affection etc.
It was garbage anybody could have come up with and didn't offer any real help.
I didn't want useless clichés, I wanted a solution to my problem! My wife had told me our marriage was over and said she wanted a divorce.
I needed a plan; something that had worked for others and could work for me too! I had been desperately reaching out to my wife, trying to get her to change her mind and give our marriage one more chance.
I made promises to change, I sent her flowers at work, I told her how much I loved her, I called her and emailed her constantly, and everything else I could think of.
She acted very cold and seemed all the more determined to end our marriage! Why were my sincerest efforts backfiring? If you want know how to repair a bad marriage, this is where you will have to start: 1.
Stop making the dangerous mistakes that will hurt your chance to save your marriage, and learn what you should be doing instead 2.
Get out of your negative emotional state and put yourself in a calm, confident and resourceful state 3.
Become 100% committed to taking specific action, even if it seems counter-intuitive.
There are things you can say and do which will change the dynamics of your relationship with your spouse, regardless of how he or she is feeling right now.
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