- Meet women without going out of your way. Engage women at your weekly service or special event at your place of worship. Women you meet at church are likely to already share your values and beliefs. Make sure you do not interfere with the service or meeting when approaching a woman at church, though. Stick to a few guidelines and you might find your soul mate at your place of worship. After the service make eye contact and casually walk toward her. Introduce yourself and discuss the sermon or an upcoming church event. Jewish, Roman Catholic, Episcopalian, Methodist, Baptist and other religions all provide a place of worship in Simsbury.
- Find a woman who shares similar interests in terms of health and fitness at a local gym. Most woman come to the gym in a plain, unpackaged state -- meaning no makeup, hair not done and in sweats. Approaching a woman at the gym can boost her confidence and score you a hot date. Take a class, ask for help using a new exercise machine or offer to spot her during weight training. Visit Big Sky Fitness Center in Simsbury and sign up if you haven't or ask for the seven-day free trial membership. Big Sky Fitness Center offers daily classes from spinning to power yoga and boot camp as well as various cardio machines and strength-training apparatuses.
- The bar scene takes a lot of flack as being overdone and an impossible place to find a date. Meeting a woman at a bar is possible, but you need a bit of creativity to succeed. Any man can buy a lady a drink, so avoid such cliche first moves. Try asking her and her friends to sit with you and your friends. Showing interest in her friends rather than trying to get her alone reflects your nurturing side. Avoid complimenting her on her appearance; instead, compliment her on her dance moves or drink choice. Local Simsbury bars include Iron Frog Tavern, Old Well Tavern and Hoops and Hops as well as the Maple Tree Cafe.
- Simsmore Square is self-described as "Simsbury, Connecticut's premier marketplace." Simsmore Square provides a farmer's market with multiple vendors, catering companies, consignment shops and restaurants. While you spend your day purchasing fruits and vegetables or grabbing a light lunch you can meet plenty of women in the area. Discuss the freshness of the berries, where to grab a cup of coffee or which vendor offers the best selection. The nonthreatening environment will keep you both at ease.
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