Some of us are daredevils and this is very evident in some of our actions wherein we choose to solve our problems alone.
This is not a bad thing at all and sometimes it can be beneficial rather than having a lot of different hands in the cookie jar.
One facet of your life that may require you to be a lone wolf is your marriage.
Your personal life most of the time is a closed book unless you're a local celebrity whose name is always on the tabloids.
Most of the time, you will choose to conceal your problems and share it with only those that you love and cherish the most.
When it comes to problems concerning your marriage, you need to tackle these alone.
You can involve your friends and family to some extent but never have them engage your problems full throttle.
You need to save your marriage alone.
Why do I say this? The fact that marriage is a sacred bond and should be upheld by everyone is already contradicting my stand.
But then again, every bond is different and only the person involved knows it like the back of his or her palm.
That is why I say that marriage can only be saved by the person directly in it.
Of course outside resources can help to a great extent but all the dirty work needs to be done by the wife or husband.
When you set out to save your marriage, you need to do a stringent analysis of everything that transpired during the course of the marriage.
You need to tackle the following: • The problems that are causing the strain in your marriage • Possible compromising Marriages do not strain itself on its own.
There has to be underlying reasons that are causing the cradle to rock.
Sit down and talk with your partner.
Whatever ego the two of you may have, throw it out of the window and speak at par with each other.
You cannot find what the cure is unless you first find out what the disease or virus is.
Once you have already unraveled what the root cause of the problem is, compromise.
Changes need to happen moving forward with your marriage and both parties need to adhere to that game plan.
For the sake of the marriage's survival, there has to be a unanimous commitment on both to become better people moving forward.
So when you set out to save your marriage alone, you need to do all that was mentioned.
If you want your marriage to go the distance you won't think twice about doing what is necessary.
This is not a bad thing at all and sometimes it can be beneficial rather than having a lot of different hands in the cookie jar.
One facet of your life that may require you to be a lone wolf is your marriage.
Your personal life most of the time is a closed book unless you're a local celebrity whose name is always on the tabloids.
Most of the time, you will choose to conceal your problems and share it with only those that you love and cherish the most.
When it comes to problems concerning your marriage, you need to tackle these alone.
You can involve your friends and family to some extent but never have them engage your problems full throttle.
You need to save your marriage alone.
Why do I say this? The fact that marriage is a sacred bond and should be upheld by everyone is already contradicting my stand.
But then again, every bond is different and only the person involved knows it like the back of his or her palm.
That is why I say that marriage can only be saved by the person directly in it.
Of course outside resources can help to a great extent but all the dirty work needs to be done by the wife or husband.
When you set out to save your marriage, you need to do a stringent analysis of everything that transpired during the course of the marriage.
You need to tackle the following: • The problems that are causing the strain in your marriage • Possible compromising Marriages do not strain itself on its own.
There has to be underlying reasons that are causing the cradle to rock.
Sit down and talk with your partner.
Whatever ego the two of you may have, throw it out of the window and speak at par with each other.
You cannot find what the cure is unless you first find out what the disease or virus is.
Once you have already unraveled what the root cause of the problem is, compromise.
Changes need to happen moving forward with your marriage and both parties need to adhere to that game plan.
For the sake of the marriage's survival, there has to be a unanimous commitment on both to become better people moving forward.
So when you set out to save your marriage alone, you need to do all that was mentioned.
If you want your marriage to go the distance you won't think twice about doing what is necessary.
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