Often times when a marriage is ending, it's not a mutual decision.
Frequently one spouse does not want a divorce and wants instead to save the marriage.
All too often however, these folks end up making critical mistakes when trying to save their marriages, and then the marriage is almost certain to fail.
Therefore it is important to know what these common mistakes are and how to avoid them so you can follow a plan that actually works! I have discovered this plan and would like to share it with you.
I didn't come by it easily.
Actually I was the idiot who made a lot of the mistakes I am about show you.
In fact, most people make these mistakes when they try to save their marriages.
The truth is, not many people actually have a clue how to save a troubled marriage.
Did you know that counseling is rarely an effective tool? Did you know that traditional counseling has about an 80% failure rate at saving marriages? Counseling certainly didn't work for me and my wife.
We learned better communication skills but that just taught us how to communicate better while we were screaming at each other! Here are some of the most common mistakes people make when trying to save their marriages.
Don't surrender your power! Don't make yourself appear weak.
And don't push, because the more you push at your spouse, the more he or she will pull back.
I saved my marriage when I made up my mind to do whatever I had to do, regardless of what my wife was doing.
I got out of the negative emotional state that I was in and put myself in a more resourceful state.
I became willing to take powerful and proven action to save my marriage, and I followed the plan that I was given, even though some of it seemed like the complete opposite of what I should have been doing.
Frequently one spouse does not want a divorce and wants instead to save the marriage.
All too often however, these folks end up making critical mistakes when trying to save their marriages, and then the marriage is almost certain to fail.
Therefore it is important to know what these common mistakes are and how to avoid them so you can follow a plan that actually works! I have discovered this plan and would like to share it with you.
I didn't come by it easily.
Actually I was the idiot who made a lot of the mistakes I am about show you.
In fact, most people make these mistakes when they try to save their marriages.
The truth is, not many people actually have a clue how to save a troubled marriage.
Did you know that counseling is rarely an effective tool? Did you know that traditional counseling has about an 80% failure rate at saving marriages? Counseling certainly didn't work for me and my wife.
We learned better communication skills but that just taught us how to communicate better while we were screaming at each other! Here are some of the most common mistakes people make when trying to save their marriages.
- Begging or pleading with their spouses
- Arguing or showing anger
- Promising their spouse that they will change
- Blaming the situation on themselves or their spouse
- Making threats or trying to use the children as leverage
- Calling, emailing, texting or sending gifts
Don't surrender your power! Don't make yourself appear weak.
And don't push, because the more you push at your spouse, the more he or she will pull back.
I saved my marriage when I made up my mind to do whatever I had to do, regardless of what my wife was doing.
I got out of the negative emotional state that I was in and put myself in a more resourceful state.
I became willing to take powerful and proven action to save my marriage, and I followed the plan that I was given, even though some of it seemed like the complete opposite of what I should have been doing.
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