"What Do You Take Me For?" Here's my question: How many of us smoke to sabotage our lives? "Oh, sure!" you scoff, "That's why I am smoking!...
What do you take me for, a true ignoramus!" Well, let me tell you as kindly as I can, that whether you sense it or not, smoking just might be the way you hurt yourself.
Research shows quite clearly that when we want to hurt ourselves for some real or perceived injustice we've been made to feel about ourselves- subconsciously, we devise some ploy for doing it that isn't clear to others.
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"Your Subconscious Just Might...
!" Let me give you an example of punishing ourselves without even choosing to: You say out loud to yourself or others, "I CAN'T S-T-A-N-D THIS JOB I HAVE GOT NOW!" Say that enough times and guess what? Your subconscious just might take your statement as some kind of command to your body; and lo and behold, you start developing back or leg problems! That's something that is clearly not wished on yourself, but still happens.
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"There's Foisted Upon You...
!" All the more is it likely that --if in your youth from some situation or some trusted parent or relative or anyone who could make you feel unworthy-as a child-that you did some wrong-there's foisted upon you belief that you are not ever going to be someone who will succeed or be happy or adjusted in your life.
It might well happen somewhere around that time, you find that smoking is your pluperfect life-saboteur: First of all, a lot of people are doing it.
Second, it is your mark of change- moving from childhood to adolescence- giving you the chance to show you've grown up..
It also is as I say, a good way to put your life into cool jeopardy.
"What You Care About More!...
" So when people like me urge you to quit because you will save cash or be healthy, that falls on deaf ears.
What you care about more is using smoking for something that no one ever suspects; And the reason why you keep on smoking (even if you might begin to see that smoking is truly sabotaging your present life) is: what are you going to do in its place if you did stop smoking? NO! NO! NO! NOI "To Effectively Want...
!" To effectively want to stop smoking and be able to live life more ably: You must see the real truth and then begin to see that whatever the reason might have been for your smoking, it doesn't have to reign now.
Whatever you did or were made to feel you did or did not do, however you behaved or were made to behave, has absolutely no relevance to you now.
And the way to deal with your life is to deal head on with it and to kiss goodbye the poor way you reckoned before.
"So Ask Yourself Again!" So ask yourself again: Am I smoking just to sabotage my life? If that's true, then take steps to learn how to stop AND find a true method for the desecration of the obscene belief.
You may never know what brought you onto your belief that you should sabotage your life, but nevertheless you can know that it's not needed as part of your being.
...
You Have Ammunition...
!" Once you know that it was sabotage that brought you to smoke, you have ammunition to quit that cursed habit.
And once you've done that, my job's done- and depending whether you're willing to descend the mine shaft of discovery or simply get on with life and not worry with what happened or how it happened or who the person was who did the thing to you...
Personally, I'm for getting on with life, becoming smoke-free and breathing in new life to my mind and body...
What do you take me for, a true ignoramus!" Well, let me tell you as kindly as I can, that whether you sense it or not, smoking just might be the way you hurt yourself.
Research shows quite clearly that when we want to hurt ourselves for some real or perceived injustice we've been made to feel about ourselves- subconsciously, we devise some ploy for doing it that isn't clear to others.
...
"Your Subconscious Just Might...
!" Let me give you an example of punishing ourselves without even choosing to: You say out loud to yourself or others, "I CAN'T S-T-A-N-D THIS JOB I HAVE GOT NOW!" Say that enough times and guess what? Your subconscious just might take your statement as some kind of command to your body; and lo and behold, you start developing back or leg problems! That's something that is clearly not wished on yourself, but still happens.
...
"There's Foisted Upon You...
!" All the more is it likely that --if in your youth from some situation or some trusted parent or relative or anyone who could make you feel unworthy-as a child-that you did some wrong-there's foisted upon you belief that you are not ever going to be someone who will succeed or be happy or adjusted in your life.
It might well happen somewhere around that time, you find that smoking is your pluperfect life-saboteur: First of all, a lot of people are doing it.
Second, it is your mark of change- moving from childhood to adolescence- giving you the chance to show you've grown up..
It also is as I say, a good way to put your life into cool jeopardy.
"What You Care About More!...
" So when people like me urge you to quit because you will save cash or be healthy, that falls on deaf ears.
What you care about more is using smoking for something that no one ever suspects; And the reason why you keep on smoking (even if you might begin to see that smoking is truly sabotaging your present life) is: what are you going to do in its place if you did stop smoking? NO! NO! NO! NOI "To Effectively Want...
!" To effectively want to stop smoking and be able to live life more ably: You must see the real truth and then begin to see that whatever the reason might have been for your smoking, it doesn't have to reign now.
Whatever you did or were made to feel you did or did not do, however you behaved or were made to behave, has absolutely no relevance to you now.
And the way to deal with your life is to deal head on with it and to kiss goodbye the poor way you reckoned before.
"So Ask Yourself Again!" So ask yourself again: Am I smoking just to sabotage my life? If that's true, then take steps to learn how to stop AND find a true method for the desecration of the obscene belief.
You may never know what brought you onto your belief that you should sabotage your life, but nevertheless you can know that it's not needed as part of your being.
...
You Have Ammunition...
!" Once you know that it was sabotage that brought you to smoke, you have ammunition to quit that cursed habit.
And once you've done that, my job's done- and depending whether you're willing to descend the mine shaft of discovery or simply get on with life and not worry with what happened or how it happened or who the person was who did the thing to you...
Personally, I'm for getting on with life, becoming smoke-free and breathing in new life to my mind and body...
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