The most painful thing a wife can hear her husband say is, "I don't love you anymore".
This might seem like the end all for the marriage - how can you come back from that sort of statement? - but there might still be hope left for the marriage, but it will take work.
Read on for some important things to consider should you ever hear those dreaded words, "I don't love you anymore.
" - Know Your Strength It might feel at the moment as though your life is falling apart.
As much as it feels that way, you need to muster all the strength you have to be strong and maintain composure.
You need to maintain a positive appearance to the outside world and show your husband what he would be missing should he decide to end the relationship.
This will be hard, but like I said above, repairing a marriage is hard work.
- Consider Your Options While you may feel worthless at the moment, hearing your husband say "I don't love you anymore", you need to take this opportunity to truly take stock of your relationship.
How much do you still value the partnership you have? Is it worth saving? - Remember YOU Wives are notorious for making their husband the number one priority in their lives.
Chances are, you fall into this category as well.
You have let yourself, YOUR needs, YOUR desires go by the wayside for the sake of the marriage.
Focus on yourself, pursue your hobbies, make yourself happy, and it is likely your husband will notice this change in a positive light.
If he doesn't, well you certainly feel better! What you may find is, while your husband verbalized the feeling, "I don't love you anymore", that wasn't actually the case.
He was merely dissatisfied with the state your relationship had degenerated to and with a little effort you can get it back on track.
The options are many and the decision as to what to do is yours, consider this seriously.