One of the biggest things men need in order to fall in love with a girl is acceptance.
This point is actually what makes many men leave relationships much to the dismay of women who were genuinely in love with them.
The problem stems from the fact that women have a natural desire to improve things around them including their relationship and the man in that relationship.
Because they love him they want to help him to achieve his potential and suggest ways, borne from love, of how to do it.
Men however do not understand what is being said here and immediately feel as though 'she is trying to change me'.
I'm sure you're well aware of that classic phrase from men but there is a reason for it.
To men this feels like you are not accepting them for who they are right now standing before you.
They feel they are not your hero and not in any way admired.
Right there we have the kiss of death for a relationship.
If you really want a man to feel totally in love then communicate to him that you are a girl who accepts, admires and loves him right now as he stands 100 percent.
This includes his terrible Sunday afternoon football shirt, his mess or his whatever! When you do this a man will be inspired to better himself without any further input or suggestion from his partner.
He will want to continue to impress and please you even more because he will feel like finally he has found his dream girl.
A girl who loves and admires him without needing him to change.