Facing a divorce that you don't want can be a hurtful and heartbreaking experience.
Most men are ingrained with a need to keep a stiff upper lip and not show pain, but sometimes a guy can only take so much! If your wife wants a divorce I'd like to offer you some advice on how to save a broken marriage by avoiding the common mistakes that many guys make.
While avoiding these mistakes isn't the whole solution, it is a HUGE start and gives you a fighting chance.
The reality for most of us is that we simply aren't emotionally prepared to deal with the shock and pain of rejection by our wives.
Most of us, even though we know there are problems in the marriage, are still not expecting our wives to actually hit us with a bombshell like that.
So typically we are not in a very resourceful state to respond properly in a calm and rational way.
This leads to the common mistakes that most guys make and any one of them can ruin our chances to save our broken marriages.
The reason I know this is because I experienced all of this firsthand.
Here are some of the most critical mistakes you should avoid at all costs:
By acting in a very specific manner you can change the dynamics of the situation and have your wife beginning to reconsider the whole idea of divorce.
As I mentioned before, avoiding these mistakes is only part of the strategy you will need to use.
The most important thing though is that in addition to avoiding these mistakes, you must become 100% dedicated to saving your marriage, and be willing to take action now! The problems that have led you to this point WILL NOT go away on their own! The longer you wait to implement a plan, the less your chances!
Most men are ingrained with a need to keep a stiff upper lip and not show pain, but sometimes a guy can only take so much! If your wife wants a divorce I'd like to offer you some advice on how to save a broken marriage by avoiding the common mistakes that many guys make.
While avoiding these mistakes isn't the whole solution, it is a HUGE start and gives you a fighting chance.
The reality for most of us is that we simply aren't emotionally prepared to deal with the shock and pain of rejection by our wives.
Most of us, even though we know there are problems in the marriage, are still not expecting our wives to actually hit us with a bombshell like that.
So typically we are not in a very resourceful state to respond properly in a calm and rational way.
This leads to the common mistakes that most guys make and any one of them can ruin our chances to save our broken marriages.
The reason I know this is because I experienced all of this firsthand.
Here are some of the most critical mistakes you should avoid at all costs:
- Pleading with your wife to reconsider and try to save the marriage
- Constant phone calls, emails and texts to her
- Flowers, cards and gifts in the hopes of impressing her
- Apologies and promises to change
- Anger, arguing and threats
- Using the kids as a weapon against her
- Revenge of any kind
- Stalking, spying or jealous activity
- Use of alcohol or drugs to drown your sorrows
By acting in a very specific manner you can change the dynamics of the situation and have your wife beginning to reconsider the whole idea of divorce.
As I mentioned before, avoiding these mistakes is only part of the strategy you will need to use.
The most important thing though is that in addition to avoiding these mistakes, you must become 100% dedicated to saving your marriage, and be willing to take action now! The problems that have led you to this point WILL NOT go away on their own! The longer you wait to implement a plan, the less your chances!
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