When it comes to understanding men, an awful lot of women are clueless, and that's why so many relationships end badly.
If women had a better understanding of the quirks and commonalities that almost all men have, it would save them a great deal of frustration, panic and many sleepless nights.
Every relationship is different, and some problems are bigger than others so this isn't meant to be a blueprint to a perfect match or a cure for your bad relationship, but these helpful hints can definitely clue you in on some things that may have been confusing you! Men Aren't Great at Multitasking This means listening to you and doing something else at the same time.
If you decide that you need to tell him about your work day, or the fight you had with your mother, or your plans for your girls' weekend that's coming up in two weeks, and you're doing it while he is watching television (especially sports), then he is not fully engaged and he is probably going to end up annoyed with you.
Save the conversation for when he is on the same planet as you are.
Give Up on Trying to Make Him Stop Looking at Other Women It's just not going to happen.
It doesn't mean that the wishes he could be with her, it's just that he can't help himself.
Want to make yourself feel better about it so that you can take it less personally? Take yourself to a spot where there are eighty-year couples strolling around; maybe your local park or boardwalk.
You'll see that even the men who are part of those adorable couples who have been married for 60 years look.
In fact, he's probably looking at you! Men Look at Our Problems Differently Than We Do If you are one of those women who love to talk about your problems or your latest dilemma just for the sake of venting, be very careful around your guy.
Men hear your problems and they think that your goal in sharing it is for them to fix it.
It is their automatic response, and that is the source of so many arguments between romantic partners! If you've already come up with a solution you will feel like he doubts your ability, and if you aren't really looking for a problem he will get frustrated with you for taxing his brain.
The more you understand about the different ways that men's and women's brains work, the better off you will be and the greater the chance of success in your relationship!
If women had a better understanding of the quirks and commonalities that almost all men have, it would save them a great deal of frustration, panic and many sleepless nights.
Every relationship is different, and some problems are bigger than others so this isn't meant to be a blueprint to a perfect match or a cure for your bad relationship, but these helpful hints can definitely clue you in on some things that may have been confusing you! Men Aren't Great at Multitasking This means listening to you and doing something else at the same time.
If you decide that you need to tell him about your work day, or the fight you had with your mother, or your plans for your girls' weekend that's coming up in two weeks, and you're doing it while he is watching television (especially sports), then he is not fully engaged and he is probably going to end up annoyed with you.
Save the conversation for when he is on the same planet as you are.
Give Up on Trying to Make Him Stop Looking at Other Women It's just not going to happen.
It doesn't mean that the wishes he could be with her, it's just that he can't help himself.
Want to make yourself feel better about it so that you can take it less personally? Take yourself to a spot where there are eighty-year couples strolling around; maybe your local park or boardwalk.
You'll see that even the men who are part of those adorable couples who have been married for 60 years look.
In fact, he's probably looking at you! Men Look at Our Problems Differently Than We Do If you are one of those women who love to talk about your problems or your latest dilemma just for the sake of venting, be very careful around your guy.
Men hear your problems and they think that your goal in sharing it is for them to fix it.
It is their automatic response, and that is the source of so many arguments between romantic partners! If you've already come up with a solution you will feel like he doubts your ability, and if you aren't really looking for a problem he will get frustrated with you for taxing his brain.
The more you understand about the different ways that men's and women's brains work, the better off you will be and the greater the chance of success in your relationship!
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