Do you think you're finally ready to embark in a serious relationship and you want to be able to make him fall in love with you? Is love turning out to be way more complicated than you had anticipated and you don't know where to turn? Do the movies make it look so easy and this leaves you all the more frustrated by your faltering progress? It's time you had a reality check and learned how love really grows.
With so much weighing on every romantic move a guy makes, he can come to feel the enormous pressure he has to live up to your notion of a romantic hero.
He can stress out because he fears not saying the right thing or making his romantic gestures grand enough.
Cut him some slack and simply enjoy being with him without that unnecessary pressure.
Laugh and show him that you're not scrutinizing every little thing he says and does.
He'll relax and this will allow him to open up more to you.
The ideal atmosphere you want to create is one of ease and comfort that has you both being yourselves and enjoying each other.
You can throw in a healthy dose of admiration and respect and don't be afraid to compliment him and show praise.
This doesn't need to be overdone, but you want him to feel good about himself when he's with you.
You might also want to steer away from becoming sexually involved too quickly.
Some girls think this is the way to get a guy attached, but it really isn't.
Men can quickly make a judgment call based solely on how easy a girl is.
Build up his anticipation all while giving yourself an honest chance to find out who he really is before you take that step.
Your relationship will be more solid and the emotions will be there.
This can take quite a bit of time, so don't be in too much of a hurry to rush through this.
And even when you start to feel your love for him, give him a fair chance to catch up with you.
Love doesn't like to be rushed so be patient.
When everything is falling into place and he sees how great you are, he'll fall in love with you.