First Day of School Ideas for Parents

Prepare the Child

Preparing a child for a first day of school is one way to reduce anxiety. Prepare the child scholastically by making sure he knows some of the basic ideas that will be covered in class. Make sure your child knows the alphabet, how to count to 10, how to write his name and how to identify colors and shapes. Have the child practice going to the bathroom on his own and putting on his own shoes. Prepare the child emotionally, as well. Attend a kindergarten orientation or take a walking tour of the school. Meet the teacher if possible.

Reduce any tension you feel by planning ahead. Don't look at the first day of school as an end of en era, but look at it as the beginning of a new exciting life for your child, full of art, friends, sports games and knowledge. Prepare the child's book bag, lunch and clothes the night before school so the morning can be casual and low-key. Make sure the child understands how she is going to be picked-up from school, and scout the pick-up spot prior to the first day.

The first day of school is special and should be treated that way. Take photos and videos of your child as he prepares for his first day. Take a photo of him holding a hand written sign that says, "First Day of School," with the year written below. Take another photo by the school sign or classroom door. Write a journal entry about the day. Include the schedule, interesting happenings and emotional feedback. When your child is older, he will appreciate the journal and share it with his future spouse or children.

Pick-up your child at school on the first day and let the reunion between parent and student be an exciting and joyous occasion. Take her for ice cream and ask her questions about the day during your outing. Express your excitement and pride, and talk about the rest of the year and the exciting things that will take place. At home, have a balloon bouquet waiting for your child and give her a gift to celebrate. You might even want to get together with other families in your area to have a back-to-school party for the children.