We all want to be surrounded only by people who love, like and respect us, or at least don't harm us.
How real is it? Only a few years ago I would laugh at the idea that it is possible.
Today I would say: sure.
It is the only way relationships in life exist.
If this is true, then how come there are so many lonely, unhappy people? I don't know the answer to that, but if youfollow these five simple rules, you are not going to be one of them for sure.
1.
You are a delightful, amazing and beautiful woman.
With breasts or without, with hair or without and so on.
You got the idea.
Repeat it in front of the mirror, look directly into your eyes when you do it until the force of the habit will kick in, and your inner self remembers and believes it.
Remember, people only show us reflection of what we know about ourselves.
When we feel loved by ourselves, other show us love too.
There is a world of difference between having no hair but having a look of a woman who takes great care of herself and a female with breast and hair whose appearance screams that she doesn't like or respect herself.
Love yourself the way you are without doubts, others will show you the same emotions.
2.
Write things that need to be done during the day and do them without worrying that you'll fail, or will not have enough time etc.
When you do something with enthusiasm and trust that you know what you are doing, there are plenty of people come around to help, to give their suggestions.
Or just to encourage you.
Because when you proceed with confidence, you radiate with tons of positive energy that attracts love and friendship.
3.
Accept this love, help, friendship and desire to be around you without hesitation or excessive thoughts.
These people already got what they wanted.
You don't have to go out of your skin to please them.
Their gift was to be around you.
And you just granted it to them.
4.
Right doesn't exist without left and cold without hot.
You realize that people who feel compelled or intimidated by you will always be there.
It is expected.
Since now, you are surrounded by loving, wonderful people, who cares if there are some other ones in the world.
Ignore them.
Keep them out of your mind.
Never react, never answer, never let doubts settle in your soul.
5.
If when you read this you feel as this is all B.
S.
and no one loves you and no one will, then keep doing step one until you change your opinion about yourself.
As one wise man once said, "there are no other people out there, there are only us and our reflections in many, many mirrors that are compounds of our Universe.