From time immemorial, it has been drummed into our eardrums that love is blind.
People cash in on this statement and do a lot of crazy things all in the name of a blind love.
There are even songs promoting the theme of a blind love by popular musicians.
One of such songs is by the famous Janet Jackson, That's The Way Love Goes.
In this hit track, one of the lyrics goes like this..
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my love is blind can you see my desires? I believe that the notion of a blind love is not just facetious but deceptive as well.
Love is not supposed to be blind.
It should be wide awake to see all the imperfections in human and then learn to accept it.
An open eyed love is more to be trusted than a blind one.
Love is assumed to be blind because people in supposed love are blind to a lot of things around them.
They do crazy things; as far as harming themselves and others around them.
This is not real love but infatuation in its utmost state.
I have come to discover that these two types of love are in constant battle; the blind love and opened eyed love Is Your Love Blind? The question I will ask you is, Is Your Love Blind? Most probably yes.
Hopefully no.
What then is a blind love if it can be defined? What are those features that will determine classifying a love as being blind? · Never see's wrong in the other A blind love never sees wrong in what the other party is doing.
This is one reason why this kind of love is very dangerous.
Even when the other person offends you or is going astray; such a love is so accommodating that the other party is never wrong.
But most people love being told that they are erring so they can correct their ways.
I can't emphasize enough how dangerous this kind of attitude can be.
· Jealous and insecure A blind love is very very jealous and insecure.
Interacting with the opposite sex becomes a problem as he/she is so insecure that he/she can't trust anyone of the opposite sex to hang around you.
He/ she may cover up such insecurities with a "...
I am just trying to protect you...
" statement.
It's not true.
Such persons end up committing murder or causing you bodily harm should you ever cheat on them as their insecurities might push them to go too far.
· Based on sex This kind of love is based on sex, sex, and sex.
This is often the foundation of such love.
As long as you are in each other's arms, the whole world can go to blazes.
If you ever cheat on him/her, you will live to regret it as such a one could be very vengeful.
Refusing to make love could be a trigger to bad things to come.
· Counter productive A blind love is equally counterproductive.
Since they would hardly want to be out of each other's sight, they wouldn't really have time to be productive in their respective ventures.
Their lack of trust will also drive people that would have helped them away from them.
On the other hand, the open love is more awake and open eyed.
Out of love, it trusts and is productive.
It's the very opposite of what the blind love lacks.
People cash in on this statement and do a lot of crazy things all in the name of a blind love.
There are even songs promoting the theme of a blind love by popular musicians.
One of such songs is by the famous Janet Jackson, That's The Way Love Goes.
In this hit track, one of the lyrics goes like this..
..
..
my love is blind can you see my desires? I believe that the notion of a blind love is not just facetious but deceptive as well.
Love is not supposed to be blind.
It should be wide awake to see all the imperfections in human and then learn to accept it.
An open eyed love is more to be trusted than a blind one.
Love is assumed to be blind because people in supposed love are blind to a lot of things around them.
They do crazy things; as far as harming themselves and others around them.
This is not real love but infatuation in its utmost state.
I have come to discover that these two types of love are in constant battle; the blind love and opened eyed love Is Your Love Blind? The question I will ask you is, Is Your Love Blind? Most probably yes.
Hopefully no.
What then is a blind love if it can be defined? What are those features that will determine classifying a love as being blind? · Never see's wrong in the other A blind love never sees wrong in what the other party is doing.
This is one reason why this kind of love is very dangerous.
Even when the other person offends you or is going astray; such a love is so accommodating that the other party is never wrong.
But most people love being told that they are erring so they can correct their ways.
I can't emphasize enough how dangerous this kind of attitude can be.
· Jealous and insecure A blind love is very very jealous and insecure.
Interacting with the opposite sex becomes a problem as he/she is so insecure that he/she can't trust anyone of the opposite sex to hang around you.
He/ she may cover up such insecurities with a "...
I am just trying to protect you...
" statement.
It's not true.
Such persons end up committing murder or causing you bodily harm should you ever cheat on them as their insecurities might push them to go too far.
· Based on sex This kind of love is based on sex, sex, and sex.
This is often the foundation of such love.
As long as you are in each other's arms, the whole world can go to blazes.
If you ever cheat on him/her, you will live to regret it as such a one could be very vengeful.
Refusing to make love could be a trigger to bad things to come.
· Counter productive A blind love is equally counterproductive.
Since they would hardly want to be out of each other's sight, they wouldn't really have time to be productive in their respective ventures.
Their lack of trust will also drive people that would have helped them away from them.
On the other hand, the open love is more awake and open eyed.
Out of love, it trusts and is productive.
It's the very opposite of what the blind love lacks.
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