You sense you need to improve the marriage you have with your spouse before it takes a further turn for the worse.
The signs are there.
You hardly talk, you hardly spend time together, you almost can't stand being seen together at social events.
At this rate, divorce will rear its ugly head before long.
You predicted this might happen especially seeing as how half the marriages around you have crumbled into divorce -- an indication of how true the national statistics for failed marriages is.
You definitely need to improve the marriage but what can you do? How do you improve marriage when only one of you seem at all concerned that it's going downhill? 1.
Start finding excuses to go on a date Pretend a friend left you tickets for your spouse's favorite play.
Then plan the most romantic night ever complete with dinner, after-show drinks and a horse carriage ride if you can find one.
2.
Revive the feelings again Go reflect why you married your spouse.
Write down the top 10 reasons why the marriage has been good.
Then leave the list "accidentally" where he or she will find it.
3.
Don't leave saving the marriage to chance Get help to figure out what's wrong and what you can do to start the healing process, even when your spouse is not initially involved.
Don't believe for a moment that saving your marriage will be easy.
The marriages that get saved usually need the help of professional marriage counselors who can be pretty expensive.
Instead you can go online and buy the e-courses and ebooks put out by these very same experts but at more reasonable prices.
The signs are there.
You hardly talk, you hardly spend time together, you almost can't stand being seen together at social events.
At this rate, divorce will rear its ugly head before long.
You predicted this might happen especially seeing as how half the marriages around you have crumbled into divorce -- an indication of how true the national statistics for failed marriages is.
You definitely need to improve the marriage but what can you do? How do you improve marriage when only one of you seem at all concerned that it's going downhill? 1.
Start finding excuses to go on a date Pretend a friend left you tickets for your spouse's favorite play.
Then plan the most romantic night ever complete with dinner, after-show drinks and a horse carriage ride if you can find one.
2.
Revive the feelings again Go reflect why you married your spouse.
Write down the top 10 reasons why the marriage has been good.
Then leave the list "accidentally" where he or she will find it.
3.
Don't leave saving the marriage to chance Get help to figure out what's wrong and what you can do to start the healing process, even when your spouse is not initially involved.
Don't believe for a moment that saving your marriage will be easy.
The marriages that get saved usually need the help of professional marriage counselors who can be pretty expensive.
Instead you can go online and buy the e-courses and ebooks put out by these very same experts but at more reasonable prices.
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